Are you as shallow as me?

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  1. HamYai

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    I love "chemistry".

    That indefinable je ne sais quoi which presses my/our buttons.

    I'd far rather spend an evening with an otherwise "average-looking" partner who somehow trips those switches.

    It may be the conversation. It may be the smile. It may be the hairstyle or the profile or the view from the rear or the curl of a lip or the raising of an eyebrow or a dimple or a graceful hand movement (or any combination).

    I've often seen beneath the veneer and been proud to escort (and to fuck) someone that doesn't "light-up-the-room" at parties. Cuz, for some reason, they turn me on (and me them).

    BUT, I also fall for the looks on occasion. I've had sex with more than one person who I didn't really click with (and sometimes even found mentally repulsive - or at least not stimulating).

    Purely based on looks.

    Beautiful facial features, shapely body, or whatever.

    I knew a guy when I was younger who had no personality (could bore for England), was rude and absolutely misogynistic in his attitude, had poor personal hygiene and no dress sense. He also spent his weekly wage in the betting office each and every week within twelve hours of being paid.

    He was a total loser except he had a huge cock. I saw it on more than one occasion (cuz he was always flopping it out, at every available opportunity). he was a good 8 - 9 inches flaccid (I never saw it hard).

    He also had a reputation for being a selfish, lazy, lousy fuck.

    Yet the girls (not all of them - but enough of them) all but queued up to be stabbed by it.

    In a drunken honesty-session with one lass (an ordinarily lovely girl) I asked why the girls were so keen to have sex with him. She admitted that she'd had sex with him, but wouldn't repeat it and did have some regrets about it, but that - despite all the bad reports - she'd just HAD to find out for herself.

    I empathised as I'd slept with girls for nothing other than their big boobs etc., etc.

    What's worse is that, despite my maturity, I can't promise never to ever do it again.

    Please tell me I'm normal.
     
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    You sometimes are shallow and sometimes not.
    And you recognize the difference.
    Doesn't sound all that shallow to me.
    Pretty middle of the road on the shallow/deep continuum.
     
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    I couldn't have asked for a better reply than that to confirm that I am, probably, "normal".

    My partner might wish to debate the matter with you, further, though:biggrin1:.

    Thankyou for responding so clearly, yet succinctly.:smile:
     
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    We aims to pleez, STD.:wink:
     
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    Can we hold you to that?:tongue:
     
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    i dont see the point of sleepign with a chick because she has big tits, maybe im just not enough of a breast man, but its not like it enhances the sex...maybe if i heard a girl was a great fuck, gave great head and had a real tight pussy.. thats different
     
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    Whereas shallow old me slept with a chick just cuz she had a fabulous looking rack and they'd been silicon enhanced (the reason for their attractiveness, to me, being that I'd never experienced enhanced boobs, before).

    Her character reflected her enhancements in being in-your-face, brash and arrogant but I persevered and ignored my repulsion of her personality, purely in order to squeeze and suck and play and fuck with those twin beauties.

    I was neither disappointed nor converted.

    Her tits were cool and although overly large for her frame, didn't sag whatever position she adopted. Luckily, there was no obvious scarring as she'd had the implants inserted through her armpits. But I didn't find them any more or less erotic than natural breasts.

    Unfortunately, it backfired somewhat as once the deed had been done, i didn't see her again and had to put up with a Glen Close style bunny-boiler stalking for awhile (including hysterical messages, calling me for everything, left on my answerphone, for anyone - including my teenage kids :eek: - to hear, even). I wasn't the first who'd Wham Bam Thankyou Mam'd her, for titilation purposes, apparently.

    Thankfully, she met someone else and left me alone, eventually.

    But it just goes to show that being shallow can have its drawbacks.
     
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  8. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    I really couldn't sleep with someone just because they were attractive. I need to have 'something' there (whatever it is) to feel comfortable with the person.

    But looks are the first thing that draw you to a person, so while it might not be a great reason it is a viable reason for perusing a person.
     
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