Are you attractive to transgenders? how do you identify your orientation?

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Just wondering, what kinds of guys are turn on by transgenders (MTF? FTM? and/or others?) Does it matter if they are pre-op or post-op or no-op?

I can find transgender women (MTF) attractive. It's not a fetish though, it would really depend on the woman. Pre/post op wouldn't matter. I identify as straight.

I don't find transgender men (FTM) attractive (again, pre/post op doesn't matter, just not attracted to dudes).
 

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I consider myself bisexual. I am very attracted to trans women (MTF), and prefer pre-op. I have had one LTR with a trans woman which was a great experience. I really enjoyed the "blurring" of her sexuality, especially in the bedroom. Male / female; feminine / masculine meant little.....we just focused on the intimacy and pleasure we could give each other. Outside the bedroom was more "traditional" roles......Very liberating and very satisfying overall. Peace.
 
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Some people are attractive, regardless of label or pronoun. Some because they're good looking, or because of their physique, or their sense of faahion, or their attitude. And some people are not, again regardless of label or pronoun.

But finding someone attractive isn't necessarily the same thing as sexual interest. I'm only sexually interested in straight cis women.
 

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Just wondering, what kinds of guys are turn on by transgenders (MTF? FTM? and/or others?) Does it matter if they are pre-op or post-op or no-op?

I have found myself attracted to a few transgender women in my life. But the attraction was that they were just physically attractive persons, and I perceived them as being female. In no way that they once had a penis; or even still had penises, play any part in that attraction

Just as I can find someone born female attractive, I do not necessarily want to bed everyone I find attractive.
We have a senior member, who shall remain nameless; but when she visited chat, wayy back in the day, she was just a funny and attractive LPSG women. Even when someone alerted me ( ratted on her ), she was Trans, it did not matter. She was a great person / member. Sadly she stopped visiting chat, due to a few rude A-Holes.
 

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As a gay man my answer is complicated.

If I were single I’d like to think that if the guy I fell for was trans we’d get over that.

As far as porn is concerned I have seen gay porn with FTM actors and have found that very attractive so why not?
 
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I consider myself bisexual. I am very attracted to trans women (MTF), and prefer pre-op. I have had one LTR with a trans woman which was a great experience. I really enjoyed the "blurring" of her sexuality, especially in the bedroom. Male / female; feminine / masculine meant little.....we just focused on the intimacy and pleasure we could give each other. Outside the bedroom was more "traditional" roles......Very liberating and very satisfying overall. Peace.
Totally makes sense. I can relate.
Care to chat some time?
 
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Just wondering, what kinds of guys are turn on by transgenders (MTF? FTM? and/or others?) Does it matter if they are pre-op or post-op or no-op?
Mostly straight occasionally hook up with a gay guy friend. Absolutely disgusted by trannies.
 
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What exactly do you find disgusting? Just asking and trying to understand.

The image of a gender with the opposite Gender's genitals makes my stomach turn. I also can help but recognize the mental disorder associated .
 
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Mostly straight occasionally hook up with a gay guy friend. Absolutely disgusted by trannies.

The image of a gender with the opposite Gender's genitals makes my stomach turn. I also can help but recognize the mental disorder associated .

I am sorry you have such a visceral reaction to the image of a gender with the opposite gender's genitals. That's unfortunate. How'd you come to feel such absolute disgust? I

How is it that you "recognize" the mental disorder associated? What exactly do you mean by that? Associated with what? One's sexuality? How one identifies? What led you to reach such a conclusion? I would genuinely like to know your thoughts here and how it is you came to feel like you do.

Cuz, realizing oneself to be transgendered is not any more a mental disorder than me realizing I was gay, or you realizing you are/were straight. Let me ask you this: When did you know you were straight? That you also liked peen? Do you have a mental disorder? Would your straight friends think you have a mental disorder if they knew you hook(ed) up with a gay guy friend? Perhaps you are just wired that way? Regardless, it's okay. Because you are being you. Just like transgendered people are being them. It truly is how they are wired!

Like so many here, I have real life experience and friendships with transgendered people. With my two best friends who had transitioned before I met them, as well as males I've known who've transitioned; I was fortunate to witness their journeys. And in EVERY case, they didn't want to transition, they NEEDED to transition.

It's a fascinating world out there, and my goodness, you live in Washington DC, a huge melting pot of all types and kinds of sexualities and sexual proclivities. You'd be surprised how many people you might encounter each day who just may not be exactly who you think they are compared to what their exterior presents. And that's a good thing. Cuz they are just like you and me. People being who they are.
 
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I am sorry you have such a visceral reaction to the image of a gender with the opposite gender's genitals. That's unfortunate. How'd you come to feel such absolute disgust? I

How is it that you "recognize" the mental disorder associated? What exactly do you mean by that? Associated with what? One's sexuality? How one identifies? What led you to reach such a conclusion? I would genuinely like to know your thoughts here and how it is you came to feel like you do.

Cuz, realizing oneself to be transgendered is not any more a mental disorder than me realizing I was gay, or you realizing you are/were straight. Let me ask you this: When did you know you were straight? That you also liked peen? Do you have a mental disorder? Would your straight friends think you have a mental disorder if they knew you hook(ed) up with a gay guy friend? Perhaps you are just wired that way? Regardless, it's okay. Because you are being you. Just like transgendered people are being them. It truly is how they are wired!

Like so many here, I have real life experience and friendships with transgendered people. With my two best friends who had transitioned before I met them, as well as males I've known who've transitioned; I was fortunate to witness their journeys. And in EVERY case, they didn't want to transition, they NEEDED to transition.

It's a fascinating world out there, and my goodness, you live in Washington DC, a huge melting pot of all types and kinds of sexualities and sexual proclivities. You'd be surprised how many people you might encounter each day who just may not be exactly who you think they are compared to what their exterior presents. And that's a good thing. Cuz they are just like you and me. People being who they are.

Look, you asked for my opinion and you don't agree with it, clearly. I'm not going to go in depth about this for the sake of posterity. Medical diagnosis and statistics regarding suicide, post-genital mutilation are all I will refer you to.