I am very dominant a friend left me before she said I was too controlling. I like dominant or submissive women, preferably one who can be both. Sometimes I would just like to lie down on my back and let her do whatever she wants to me while I rest. I like the sound of getting into a power struggle with a dominant woman. This girl I talk to on the phone has a fiance, they three way me and she gets angry a lot. It turns me on a lot when she starts yelling at me, telling me shes going to fucking kill me, hit me with a baseball bat, kick my testes, send me to prison to get raped, etc. I just say, "Awwww, Wendy! You're so cute baby!" It sounds wrong for men to be submissive. They are the head and a leader.