Ok, so as you can see from my stats i consider myself bi and prefer women. I currently have a girlfriend and we've been dating for a little over 6 months. A couple weeks ago when I was home on Christmas break we were going to have sex but I found that I couldn't get it up. So I just told her it was because I was really hungry and sick, which I actually was both. Later we came back and were making out watching a movie while other people were there and I started to get hard. People left and we were just about to have sex when somone came in. After that, we closed the door, but I found that it was hard for me to really commit to getting completely hard. I accidentally rammed myself into a sharp corner of a light *don't ask* and it really hurt, but i pretended it hurt more than it did just so that I didn't have to keep trying to get hard. So here's my problem...I love her *yea, it's only been 6 months but trust me*, but I don't know what to do. I can get hard making out with her, but as soon as it gets serious my dick runs and hides. So you guys *and girls* have any advice? Oh, btw, having sex with her would be the first time i've had sex with a girl, but I've had sex with guys before. Another detail is that she wants to go straight to sex, with no fingering/me going down on her, which makes it even harder for me. So what should I do? Thanks!