Are you Gay if you can suck your self?

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So if a guy is taking a strap on in the ass but it's a woman doing it that makes him not gay?
:confused: Are you suggesting a guy who takes a strap-on from a woman is gay?

I believe people need to hold of with their assumptions about me, calling me sad or jealous.
I'm obviously not the subject of matter in this topic and I'm merely stating my beliefs on the question.

It shows a pretty weak character to be attacking me personally.
:confused13: Assumptions? What assumptions? Attacking? Who's attacking? Hey, are you attacking my character? :suspect:

This is a conversation, bud. People who state beliefs or opinions can expect other people to respond. Other people may have beliefs and opinions different from yours. Other people are allowed to state their beliefs and opinions too, even if they are contrary to your beliefs and opinions. See how that works? Sorry, but no one gets to make solo pronouncements here. Surprise!
 
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Oh no, I apreciate all opinions and I it is obvious that there are many different opinions, but not once did I attack someone for having a different opinion then mine.

I say that in my opinion selfsucking is gay and people call me sad jealous and indicating that I'm not thoughtful, evolved, and uptight?

If you disagree then by all means show what your opinion is worth but do it without talking about me or my character.
 

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Jerking off - An act all(or at least most) men do
Sucking your own dick - A straight act(for lucky guys)
Sucking another guy's dick - A gay act
Loving a woman - Means you're stright
Loving a man - Means you're gay

Just because you suck another guy's dick or fool around with him or just have thoughts does not mean you're gay. It means you're human. All people have questions about their sexuality. Do what feels right. Don't let other people decide for you.
 

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ok...This thread needs some levity...

Two guys are walking down the street and they pass a dog licking its penis.

"Man! I wish I could do that!" says one guy.

The other answers, "Why? He'd probably bite you."

That's the most unfunny version of that old joke.
The more usual response is "Well, give him a biscuit and he might let you".
 

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I think either your lucky or talented...Not gay. I have heard many a straight guy say "If i could suck my own cock, I would never leave the house"....:smile: I say if it feels good...Do it.
 
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Jerking off - An act all(or at least most) men do
Sucking your own dick - A straight act(for lucky guys)
Sucking another guy's dick - A gay act
Loving a woman - Means you're stright
Loving a man - Means you're gay

Just because you suck another guy's dick or fool around with him or just have thoughts does not mean you're gay. It means you're human. All people have questions about their sexuality. Do what feels right. Don't let other people decide for you.

Good points.... and let me know if you need help with any of the above. :p
 

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Oh no, I apreciate all opinions and I it is obvious that there are many different opinions, but not once did I attack someone for having a different opinion then mine.
No one 'attacked' you. Please stop exaggerating, stop twisting words around, and stop being so defensive.

I say that in my opinion selfsucking is gay and people call me sad jealous and indicating that I'm not thoughtful, evolved, and uptight?
No one said you were sad, and no one said you were uptight or you weren't thoughtful or evolved either. Though the more you post, the more that seems the case. So if you want to wear those hats, be my guest.

What I actually said, in context:

Oh no I can, but there's something degrading about actually doing it.
I feel a liitle sad for you.
Besides I believe that most of the advice here is given by gay men?
Most of the good advice comes from men and women who are thoughtful, evolved, and not particulary uptight.
If you disagree then by all means show what your opinion is worth but do it without talking about me or my character.
I never referred to you or your character. In acuality, and ironically, the only person to make reference to anyone's character was you, bud:
It shows a pretty weak character to be attacking me personally.
Again, no one attacked you. This twisting of people's words is tired, and your defensive 'poor pitiful me' act is, well frankly, a little sad.
 
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I'm not a gay man. I am a straight woman.

You seem to be a little confused between what the nerves in a person's body would find pleasurable and the person with whom a man wants to be in bed with when he enjoys the sensations that those nerves provide when it comes to labeling someone gay or straight.

No, sucking your own cock doesn't make you gay because you're in bed with yourself.

No, if you take a strap-on in the ass from a woman then you aren't gay either because you're in bed with a woman. There are nerves in there that are pleasurable for straight men, men who are still only attracted to women.

I enjoy sucking cock. If you think cocksucking is degrading, then you shouldn't let a woman do it to you. I do not think cocksucking is degrading, and I would not suck the cock of a man who thought it was.
 

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Maybe it makes you gay, maybe bi, maybe open minded, or better still happy. Why worry about the labels? Just go for what feels good.
This! :grinning-smiley-003 very happy.





Note to WhiteMonster: This opinion comes from a man who identifies himself 80% straight. Not to mention the other predominantly straight men and women expressing the same view. So much for your "gay male" advice theory.
 
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I'm not a gay man. I am a straight woman.

You seem to be a little confused between what the nerves in a person's body would find pleasurable and the person with whom a man wants to be in bed with when he enjoys the sensations that those nerves provide when it comes to labeling someone gay or straight.

No, sucking your own cock doesn't make you gay because you're in bed with yourself.

No, if you take a strap-on in the ass from a woman then you aren't gay either because you're in bed with a woman. There are nerves in there that are pleasurable for straight men, men who are still only attracted to women.

I enjoy sucking cock. If you think cocksucking is degrading, then you shouldn't let a woman do it to you. I do not think cocksucking is degrading, and I would not suck the cock of a man who thought it was.

FTW!
 

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No, I don't think it makes you gay. However, I am a realist and I have to ask: If you're willing to suck your own cock, why not someone else's? Either way, there's a dick in your mouth- what's so bad about sucking off another man if you're going to put a dick in your mouth regardless?