Guy-jin
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If you saydead-lethal at reading folks, in the flesh and through various electronics.
is all pattern recognition and cynicism.
i'm trying not to listen to that part of my inner dialog. is a touch ugly, and massively defensive. there is also a touch of depersonalization, seeing a person as a collection of tics or warning signs.
inspection-style meetings keep me too guarded. which maybe ain't the most honest... not in an out right lie kinda way... just... i keep the soft bits well away. and i am uber aware of how i interact with the may-be-ooky folks.
hello, is nice to meet you
and open possibility sounds loverly
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