I am an EXTREME giver in bed... i get turned on (and eventually get off) from the fact of knowing it's feeling good for her. I'm perfectly happy if she's came like 3 or 4 times, and i haven't even gotten off once. I'd say my little thing for seeing a woman orgasm borderlines on a fetish, in fact. I'm also really open to new ideas, and I pick up on body language really well, and I LOVE using a girls own toys on her during foreplay. For these reasons alone, I KNOW I'm pretty good in bed, but you'll certainly never hear me go around boasting about it. I'm kind of a quiet guy anyway. So whenever someone asks me directly if I'm good in bed, I usually reply with something humble-ish like, "I'm fairly decent" or "Better than average, I guess", and let the experience speak for itself.