Like a lot of people I started out in sex with all sorts of insecurities. I was in my mid teens and was embarrassed because my cock curves to the left (I didn't know how common it is) and I also thought it was small. I suffered from premature ejaculation - partly because I was insecure and desperate to please, and partly because I was just so bloody randy. But over the years I realised my curve was natural and normal and girls liked my cock just as it was. I also realised it wasn't a bad size either. I have become a much better lover because without those insecurities I have relaxed and learned to enjoy sex more. This allows me to help my partner/s to relax and enjoy themselves. That's the secret really. Once I discovered that I could give a woman an orgasm or two just by fucking her long and slow there was no looking back. So yes, I'd say I'm pretty damn good ;o)
