Are you marriage material?

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MickeyLee gave me the inspiration for my reply.

I'm lazy.
I'm emotional.
Sometimes paranoid.
very very proud.
And rarely fully content/satisfied.

But I'm also caring.
Loving.
Very into making the girl unbelievably satisfied in bed.
Want kids
Want to make a woman happy

I want to be marriage material for that one girl who I am yet to meet.

However, personally. How the fuck can I call myself marriage material? Ask the person in the future who wants to marry me :L or turns me down...
 

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I think marriage died some time ago. People are failing to tie to one person, too much distraction on the whole.

Multiple relationships are more common the ever.
 

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I was never marriage material and yet I forced myself to be and squashed myself down into that mold by sheer force of will.

Very happily free now and I swear never to do anything that destructive to myself ever again.
 

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I think marriage died some time ago. People are failing to tie to one person, too much distraction on the whole.

Multiple relationships are more common the ever.
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If you're speaking of the United States, in some communities, some ethic cultures, etc., marriage may be: remember, the strict religious communities haven't abandoned the concept of marriage.

Since I don't live in a foreign country, and in some of the most strictest countries, marriages are taking place, especially in the Catholic countries.

No one bitched about marriages in the 40s and 50s because "Father Knows Best," "I Married Joan," "The Jackie Gleason Show," and "Leave It To Beaver," were considered American marriage idols to be envied.

Fast forward to 2012 -- most people are anti-marriage. Now, the very young would not know of the above-mentioned shows....their mothers, grandmothers, and great-grandmothers (not omitting the fathers and grandfathers) -- would know about them.

Of course, I'm marriage material. However, how many men want a woman who is?

1. Single, no children.
2. Educated (retired high-school teacher).
3. Episcopalian (not Catholic).
4. Attractive figure.
5. No drama.
6. Receiving a state pension.
7. Not in debt
8. Personable; extroverted; great communicator; compassionate (even toward animals); respects her man's opinion; wants a man to wear the pants, etc.
9. Very feminine and dresses, accordingly.
10. Articulate.

For me, it appears I may have to leave the country because American men have 'no-balls.' Hell, no, back-in-the-day, men were men; women were women.

The younger generation of women do not enjoy being feminine: they curse like sailors, dress inappropriately, they do not shut up, and they do not listen, and have babies out-of-wedlock.....in other words, can't wait for a husband.
 
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Here's my minimum criteria for marriage material:

- Has a job.
- Low maintenance, can fend for himself if needed.
- Irritates me the least of most of the people I know.
- Doesn't smell.
- Bushes teeth and bathes daily.
- Doesn't have any prison time under his belt.
- Isn't an druggie, alcoholic or exhibit bi-polar behavior.

Well, besides the possible irritation bit, then I am marriage material...

Problem is, I have no desire to be married.
 

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I was never marriage material and yet I forced myself to be and squashed myself down into that mold by sheer force of will.

Very happily free now and I swear never to do anything that destructive to myself ever again.
Interesting reply.

I sometimes think I am doing that to myself. Persuading myself to conform and find a wife. Perhaps deep down, I don't want to... I might not have realised it yet though.
 

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Interesting reply.

I sometimes think I am doing that to myself. Persuading myself to conform and find a wife. Perhaps deep down, I don't want to... I might not have realised it yet though.

If there's doubt then don't because you'll end up regretting it.
 

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I'd be absolutely perfect - for the right person! I'd make the wrong person miserable, though.

Not really into marriage, but can't rule it out. Although, I do think it's more likely that I would win the lottery twice, then I end up getting married.
 

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You may not think or believe you're marriage material but, damn man, you're perrrfect playmate material!...Just sayin'. :wink:

Thanks! Playmate material works!

And I agree with Ms. Poultry, you'd be perfect for that, as well.
 
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MickeyLee gave me the inspiration for my reply.

I'm lazy.
I'm emotional.
Sometimes paranoid.
very very proud.
And rarely fully content/satisfied.

But I'm also caring.
Loving.
Very into making the girl unbelievably satisfied in bed.
Want kids
Want to make a woman happy

I want to be marriage material for that one girl who I am yet to meet.

However, personally. How the fuck can I call myself marriage material? Ask the person in the future who wants to marry me :L or turns me down...
You seem like a lovely guy Jonesy, m8. Altho - from this and other posts I get the feeling you tend to invest too much in relationships, try too hard - and make it too difficult for yourself? Relax and be a bit easier on yerself and things will mebbe be more enjoyable and work better? :D