Are you marriage material?

D_Jacqueline_Boozann

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Wow you sound like my kind of woman :cool:. I wouldn't mind marring you but sadly I think I'm too young for you lol. I don't think that most people are anti-marriage (I have friends from grade school that are married right now). However, I find it interesting that some of the people who don't want to get married, have no problem living and staying faithful boyfriend or girlfriend which to me is the same thing.
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That depends upon your definition of young. If you're in your 20s or 30s; no, I wouldn't be interested.

I'm looking for someone (yes, I love younger men) -- who's at least 45-55;

>>> preferably living in these areas: Colorado, Texas, Utah, Arizona, or New Mexico. It's easier for traveling purposes.

>>> in their 50s, preferably: great mind, body, and spirit.

>>> who enjoys sex and intimacy from his woman.

>>>> no debt, sane, clean, spiritual (not necessarily a religious fanatic); fine, if he's Episcopalian (Anglican).

>>> a cash-only person, and willing to relocate to Albuquerque, and most importantly, can speak the king's English: articulate and coherent.

I'm a retired high-school English teacher, who does not care and will not tolerate slang: unless we're chillin.' Hey, I'm only playing, posters.

Episcopalian.
 
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i've been proposed to more often than most.
some people obviously believe i'm marriage material.

but what's wrong with just having a relationship?
why the fuck would i change it so that i have to get permission from some stuffy court official, who has never met either one of us, before i can decide that relationship is over?

that's insane!

That position works for you; not everyone in the world, including the USA: just too many factors to consider for an individual:

>>> position, status in life, e.g., President Obama, married: wonder if he were single, would he had been elected?

>>> the Church, and not necessarily The Roman Catholic Church, either.
Usually, unless the congregation is young, everyone is marrying or about to marry: religious pressure and The Bible.

>>> family, friends, neighbors, and significant others. If a person isn't strong like you, who has her own morals and principles, a person might be influenced: look at your society in this country and other countries.

>>> if I'm not wrong, some countries pick spouses for the soon-to-be brides: now, that's ridiculous: suppose they just don't click?

>>> marriage is intended for the procreation of the species; fornication isn't considered on the chart, let alone, adultery. Some countries, adultery/fornication is a grave sin, especially among women -- which isn't fair; men should be held accountable -- but it's the men who are making the rules/laws, specifically, in their favor.

>>> Remember, if it's true, Mary Magdalene, who was stoned for adultery? That was during Jesus' time. Of course, she was forgiven:
"let ye who is without sin, cast the first stone!" No one had the nerve to cast that stone.

Finally, I admire your tenacity. Those are some of the above reasons people marry in the US....can't speak for other countries. However, these rules aren't going to change. In fact, since the society is so promiscuous, we're going to go back to the conservative views/challenges in past decades.
 
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Whether or not I'm marriage material is surely someone else's call?

This, really. Every pair is a different combo, and saying someone's fit for marriage depends a whole damn lot on who the other half is.

But if I had to speak on my own behalf, I'd say in general that I'm a pretty fair catch. I'm absentminded and somewhat socially awkward, but I'm career-minded, laid-back, thoughtful, and have a solid sense of humor and spontaneity. And I guess there's some complimentary physical attributes too :tongue:
 

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Well, I haven't been asked a lot, at least not seriously, but for a while I thought I was not even dating material, much less marriage. I think some guys thought I was better for a hook-up than anything medium to long term.

I'm very happily married now so I'm glad one poor soul was brave enough to take a chance!
 

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gays can't get married yet in the United States.

That's not so. Tbey can in Massachusetts, Vermont, New Hampshire, New York (I believe). I'm probably missing a couple of States too.

"Gay marriage: Coming soon to a State near you"