It would bother me. As women many of us have been conditioned through the media that if a man doesn't ejaculate he hasn't orgasmed. If he doesn't orgasm, then he has not enjoyed the sexual experience. Therefore if he didn't enjoy the sex, it must be the womans fault. :frown1: Yeah, yeah, I know there are many reasons a man may have trouble ejaculating. None of that stuff goes through our minds at that special moment in bed. :redface:If you have a fun night of sex where you come, but he doesn't....are you okay with that or would that bother you?
It would bother me, I want to hear him moan with pleasure, feel his muscles tighten, see his face break out in dimples
I have only known one man who had this problem. Are you trying to tell us your cock can stay hard for hours?
So, would you rather have a guy that has trouble cumming but stays hard for you and can go all night long,
or
would you rather have a guy that can cum "on time" but its 50/ 50 whether he could get it up at all?
That sexual automaton thing is not cool. I'm not sure where men got the idea that it was a good thing to be able to fuck for 3+ hours straight without a break.Ideally, neither.
But since neither is an option, then the second option, because the first guy is probably a sexual automaton. You can still do other things to each other even if he can't get hard.
It would bother me. As women many of us have been conditioned through the media that if a man doesn't ejaculate he hasn't orgasmed.
Wouldn't she know?I support "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" on this issue. There's no particular reason to share whether I have or have not finished. It means nothing as long as she gets her jollies; I'll just go do something else anyway.
Too soon?Strange, I've met a couple women who had a problem if I DID come...
I'm fine with it.If you have a fun night of sex where you come, but he doesn't....are you okay with that or would that bother you?
I've got to be honest here and say that even though I know this shouldn't bother me, it does.
And yet, every time he doesn't come I feel a little crushed.
Ego, anyone?
Ego, anyone?
I've got to be honest here and say that even though I know this shouldn't bother me, it does.
My husband/Master takes an extreme amount of stimulation to orgasm (so do I, but that's not what we're talking about here). Anyway, he doesn't come every time we have sex, and even after two years together I have not adjusted to this fact.
No matter how much I try to tell myself it's not about me, it's not my fault, something in me still whispers that if my pussy was tighter, or if I was somehow more exciting, he would have come. He has told me this is absurd, and that my pussy is plenty stimulating. On the surface, I believe him. And yet, every time he doesn't come I feel a little crushed.
Ego, anyone?