are you open about your sexuallity?

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  1. D_Maurice Mountlilly

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    i know it's looked down upon for women to seem like they like sexual stuff more than the average woman should.but i hear secret conversations all the time that women have and damn..they let it all hang out.
    about everything from strippers to porn movies.but the way of the world says women shouldn't be that way.i don't agree,that's why i like comming to this site.to hear all of the opinions that the women of the site have about sex and things of that nature.but with a real raw uncensored veiw.
    so my question is in every day life do you talk/act the same way? or are you reserved?
     
  2. Act2_Begins_Now

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    My signature says it all.

    By day (especially at work), I am very conservative. Aside from that persona being very much me, its almost required in my job. I work for a non profit organizaiton that is sponsored by a 'religious' organization. I am in public relations/marketing in small town america. You will hear me on the radio,may see me interviewed on the evening news or run into me in some after hours business sponsored event. My image needs to be one of a professional, conservative woman.

    Edit to add: Some men/women can see it; however. I think those that are in tuned can sense it on others.
     
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    Too open I've been told. Meh that's life I guess.
     
  4. whatireallywant

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    I have had to tone it down and be LESS "open" after I opened up too much in college and got a lot of flak for it. Of course, I think I may have over-reacted, but I was having a real problem with the really prudish attitudes of the women in my dorm! They actually thought that women weren't supposed to like sex! And they thought you should just do it "because men like it" or to have babies. I still have a problem with people with those kinds of attitudes... :mad:

    A few people know the real me. Of the people in my new (well, not so new now, I've been here since March of last year) surroundings, the only one who really knows is SensualGoth. I try to keep it under wraps because many times people with conservative attitudes can give people like me a lot of flak. I've been through that too many times and don't want to go through it again.
     
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    Very open, I don't really see any need to be secretive when it comes to sex. Most of us have sex of some sort of other, why should it be a mystery and bound by social taboos.
     
  6. JennyS

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    Very open online, not open at all in RL.

    I've seen first hand what girls do to other girls who stick out too much :p You say something as honestly simple as liking to masturbate or that you like cum and you're labelled a slut for life (well, till you go away to college anyways).
     
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    I wonder if any people from this site have seen/heard you , not knowing you are a LPSG member? With your new avatar ( looks good too ) , maybe they will now .
     
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    If you go to college with the girls I went to college with, you'd be labeled a slut there, too! :mad: Yeah, they not only thought women aren't supposed to enjoy sex, but they all said that they never masturbated. At this point I was afraid to tell them that I did, because they were already starting to give me grief for the stuff I'd already said.

    Even months later, they'd do stuff like yell "Quiet hours!" at my room when it was NOT the posted quiet hours (then during the actual quiet hours they would make a bunch of noise!), and knocking on my door, then running away so that when I answered the door, there was no one there. Yeah...really immature and all. I know that I over-reacted, more because of the sexist attitudes than anything else. (That has been my downfall on many, many occasions. I now keep my mouth shut and bite my tongue when people say sexist and gender stereotyping stuff...)
     
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    Depends who im talking to. Of course with parents etc it isnt even mentioned, with a few friends we will casually graze over stories but then with a few select friends i can be as in depth and detailed as i like, trading porn, buying toys for each other and swapping tips.
     
  10. viking1

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    Probably too open for most people...
     
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    As far as I know there are only two others from here and they are both between 100 to 200 miles away from where I am located.
     
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