Are you str8 if you love

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But isn`t having a dick one of the male caracteristics????
I mean when you fuck you can`t ignore that little thing???
I`m not saying that a penis or vagina defines us as people, but it does have an influence on our sexuality.
And if having a dick doesn`t bother you when you fuck, why not fuck a man?


Let me add a question along this train:
What if you are in a totally hetrosexual relationship with a woman and she uses a dildo, finger, or other device, in your anus - and you actually derive pleasure from it? Anal penetration is considered to be a defining homosexual trait and yet thereare many otherwise hetrosexual men engaging in this activity.

there are no right or wrong answers...just one of the many complex mysteries of human sexuality

:banana::eek5:
 

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Is it "straight" for a gay man to be attracted to and happily want to fuck a FTM transexual that still has a vagina? I presume people would say it isn't "straight" and this is the same thing... so my thought would be yes you are straight if you like shemales.

But like others have said keeping things in boxes isn't the way sexuality works.


Can we put that damn panda in a box? I'm exhausted watching it flip around :tongue:

plus it never comes and says Hi to me in chat anymore :frown1:
 

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why would a homophobe bother reading a thread on shemales :confused:
My experience with homophobes suggests that most homophobia is internalized,
i.e. 'the gentlemen doth protest too much', iffen youse knows what I means. :wink:

I wonder if the fascination that some 'straight' men have with transexuals isn't an elaborate rationalization,
i.e. a way to have their cake and . . . erm . . . eat it too.



 
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Let me add a question along this train:
What if you are in a totally hetrosexual relationship with a woman and she uses a dildo, finger, or other device, in your anus - and you actually derive pleasure from it? Anal penetration is considered to be a defining homosexual trait and yet thereare many otherwise hetrosexual men engaging in this activity.

there are no right or wrong answers...just one of the many complex mysteries of human sexuality

:banana::eek5:
Sorry, I just don`t believe it`s very str8ish to put a huge dildo up your ass....or anything penis shapped!:redface:
I just don`t believe it, I respect other people`s opinions, but as I said not very str8ish in my book!

plus it never comes and says Hi to me in chat anymore :frown1:
I promise I`ll chat will you soon! But whenever I`m in chat you aren`t!:mad:

My experience with homophobes suggests that most homophobia is internalized,
i.e. 'the gentlemen doth protest too much', iffen youse knows what I means. :wink:

I wonder if the fascination that some 'straight' men have with transexuals isn't an elaborate rationalization,
i.e. a way to have their cake and . . . erm . . . eat it too.
I have no idea what you are trying to say, but you sound so damn smart!:wink::biggrin1:
 

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But our concepts of homosexuality and heterosexuality are pretty fucking stupid. Does it mean you're gay if you're anally stimulated? Does it mean you're straight if you're not? Does it mean you're gay if you've ever been attracted to a man? Straight if you've ever been attracted to a woman? How often? When? Its not an either/or box grouping we can check that defines that.

Personally, I've had plenty of guy friends that identify as straight and have admitted to being quite anally stimulated. It a male thing, not a gay thing. Every man has a prostate, after all. (Not every man is stimulated by it, myself included) but the stigma? All very much stupid, unthinking homophobia.
 

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Yes, the homosexual is asking "straight guys" why they like trans porn. Newsflash moron, trans porn isn't straight, neither is that guy you hooked up with last night. Please stop referring to bisexuals and gays as staight.

Before that, could we get a scientific definition on "straight"? Or is your opinion on the topic the only thing that matters?
 

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I'm a fucking intellectual! :biggrin2:
And I know it!:wink::biggrin1:

But our concepts of homosexuality and heterosexuality are pretty fucking stupid. Does it mean you're gay if you're anally stimulated? Does it mean you're straight if you're not? Does it mean you're gay if you've ever been attracted to a man? Straight if you've ever been attracted to a woman? How often? When? Its not an either/or box grouping we can check that defines that.

Personally, I've had plenty of guy friends that identify as straight and have admitted to being quite anally stimulated. It a male thing, not a gay thing. Every man has a prostate, after all. (Not every man is stimulated by it, myself included) but the stigma? All very much stupid, unthinking homophobia.
I agree, it would be much easier without the labels. But that`s not the world we live in!
I really wish we could fall in love with a person, and not be limited with that person`s sex, but I don`t believe it works like that with most!
 

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My experience with homophobes suggests that most homophobia is internalized,
i.e. 'the gentlemen doth protest too much', iffen youse knows what I means. :wink:

I wonder if the fascination that some 'straight' men have with transexuals isn't an elaborate rationalization,
i.e. a way to have their cake and . . . erm . . . eat it too.
i suppose there could be that.
having straight gay sex.
looking straight in public.
a safe way to think about cock.

maybe for some people...

buggered if i know!
 

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a she male?
I`m really curious.
How come str8 men fall for a girl with a dick?
A dick is a dick, or maybe I am wrong????
How can you love a girl with a dick and not like a guy?
I personally don`t feel any sex drive to she males, but I do find some very attractive! Some I have seen are really beautiful.:smile:

She is producing estrogen, has female features and for the majority is female. So a straight man can be physically and chemically attracted to them. It takes more than a dick to be a man.
 

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Id say for the most part I am straight, maybe a little curious at that.

But a few years ago I got into shemales, porn wise.

I still cant get enough, probably do it to them more than anything else at this point. Ive heard it is some sort of obsession with my own penis that makes me want to see a girl with one. Who knows about that. I love the idea of a girl with a dick. Huge turn on, maybe because its just out of the norm.

But i am also very picky with shemales too. Gotta look very feminine and have a huge cock or it just doesnt work for me.
That's pretty much my story as well.

When you are told you are not supposed to be attracted to something like feminine shemales, it just makes it more appealing to me.