Are you straight curious?

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This question is for men who identify as gay. I am not asking bisexual men who obviously have a preference for both sexes.

Gay men...guys who've only been with men...

Have you ever thought about being with a woman? If so what has stopped you?
Lack of opportunity?
Does it make you feel like you're betraying your lifestyle or the gay community?

If you have curiosity about women how far would you go?
 
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Straight curious... that's a new term.

I would definitely be open to trying it with a woman again. I don't know if it was lack of experience or lack of chemistry, but the last time (when I was a few years younger) didn't do much for me. I guess what has stopped me would be lack of opportunity. I don't experience the type of girls who are looking for sex all the time, especially with gays. I'm sure I will be faced with something like that at some point, and it is very possible that I might go for it.

I am not at all "grossed out" by "lady parts". I can be turned on by women in certain scenarios, it just has seemed like I can find better connections with men (plus, they have wang). I guess, if it felt right, I could be capable to going "all the way" with a woman. Hell, I'm young, who knows what will happen.
 
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I think she means gay curious!!

NO WAY - COCK all the way.
To be totally honest, I did try it with a woman, but it was SO VILE, I really couldn't believe it, I tried it again with another one, just in case the first one was a wrongen, but the second one was just as VILE it was beyond anything I ever want to do again.

Brinz - lover of cock
 
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I've had sex with women when I was in college and enjoyed it. I just never craved it. I think for the most part I was seduced into the sex then. It's just that it wasn't as exhilarating as sex with a hot guy.

If the opportunity arose I think I'd like to have sex with a woman but there is always so much baggage that comes with these kind of experiences unless you hire a prostitute which seems expensive and seedy just to satiate a curiosity.
 
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Straight curious... that's a new term.

I would definitely be open to trying it with a woman again.....

I am not at all "grossed out" by "lady parts". I can be turned on by women in certain scenarios, it just has seemed like I can find better connections with men (plus, they have wang). I guess, if it felt right, I could be capable to going "all the way" with a woman. Hell, I'm young, who knows what will happen.

I'm in a similar boat. While I consider myself gay, and women don't generally sexually excite me, they can still be what I would call a turn on. I can still connect with a women's persona and a good look, and to a degree it can get me in the mood.

A party can often be better to me if there is a women that I think is emotionally attractive, good looking, and gives off the right kind of chemistry for us to get along. Most of the time, I just want that around because it adds spark to my mood.

There are certainly some women I'd have sex with like certain actresses and such. Charlize Theron, Eva Green, Lana Del Rey. They just put me in a "mood of yes" looking at them and their unique click.

I guess for those reasons, I would say I'm around 70-90% Gay. There's room for an alluring woman on rare occasion.
 
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Well, seaside, i have *thought* of being with a woman. It's not at all a pleasant thought though. It's not a revolting thought. It doesn't make me want to gag or anything. It's just unpleasant. I know it isn't something I would want to do, and I'm not even sure I would be able to get erect.

On the other hand, if Shakira were to put on an enormous strap on... eh, maybe... but still probably not.
 
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Nope. I have no curiosity about it whatsoever. I am a top and I love masculinity, and theres nothing hotter than your bottom having rock hard abs and pecs and a rock hard dick while youre doing him. There is nothing appealing to me about women whatsoever, nor am I curious to try.
 

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When I had trouble dealing with my sexuality and coming to terms with it I had a few infatuations with women which turned out to be for not.

I feel like it would be damaging to pursue a relationship with a woman just for the sake of it when I'm not sexually attracted to them, I would never want someone to feel like I'm just using them.

I would probably not actively pursue it, but might incidentally depending on the circumstances.
 
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well, ive had sexual experiences with girls before, but it has been a really long time. i prefer men to the extent that i identify as gay, but in the past couple of years i have had a few fantasies about bisexual threeways and even some involving just a girl. with the right girl i think i would go for it, but i dont expect the opportunity to arise anytime soon.
 
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Have you ever thought about being with a woman?

Of course! We're raised the same way other boys are - to be straight. I sure thought about it. After coming out, I thought about it way less - as in, almost 0% of the time.

If so what has stopped you?

It's not really fair to her, is it? "Hey, I'm gay but I'd totally like to experiment with you. I may not find your body attractive, and I may fail to achieve erection, but that should be fine by you, yeah?"

Lack of opportunity?

Good God, no. I had lots of opportunity to get horny with the ladies, but it was almost always under the influence of their thinking I was straight or convertible.

Does it make you feel like you're betraying your lifestyle or the gay community?

No. I have nothing but respect for queer guys who are out about their attraction to women. (For the record, please remember that "lifestyle" is a dangerously politically-loaded term for LGBTQ* people)

If you have curiosity about women how far would you go?

Not very far for reasons already outlined. As with LargeSide, I have no aversion to women or women's bodies. In fact, I think boobs are fantastic. But if I were to be be a straight guy for a day (or night, or hour, or whatever), I wouldn't want to be a douche.

Also gay guys who are part of a couple..is there ever any discussion of adding a girl just for the sheer physical pleasure/experience?

No, never.
 

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Have you ever thought about being with a woman?

Yes, I did it once or twice with a girlfriend, and tried to go there once more with someone else.

If so what has stopped you?

Her husband.

Lack of opportunity?

Few very attractive available female friends. Also I don't know many porn stars.

Does it make you feel like you're betraying your lifestyle or the gay community?

No. It makes me feel dishonest to the woman, like I'm not fully there for her.

If you have curiosity about women how far would you go?

Missionary or MMF, have done both. Don't like oral.
 

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I was with a woman one time years ago and we looked at each other wondering who was gonna fuck who........lmao it's true.....:no: