Are you "straight" if.....

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  1. Countryguy63

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    There has always been, and will always be differences of opinions on here as to what makes a person "straight" or not.

    During a conversation with the guys at work, a site like this was brought up, and one of them said that he believed that any man that would be on a site with pictures and discussions of cocks was at least "closeted gay". :rolleyes:

    Of course, I voiced that I thought he was way off base, but recently I got to thinking about it, and thought I would throw this out to the members here.....
     
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    The rule is that if you have to ask then it probably isnt
     
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    I sometimes look at pictures of nude men with interest but no sense of arousal.

    I love women, boobs, and pussy.

    I have no interest in sucking or playing with anyone's cock but my own (no I can't suck myself off), and no interest in getting fucked by any guy.

    I think that makes me straight.
     
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    Those guys are tools. Seriously I stare at women on another forum all day sometimes and it pretty much does nothing for me. I will not rule out being attracted but, I could be surrounded by naked women and if one naked man walks in my focus will switch to him. Some people are huge homophobes and ridiculous in their thoughts about "labels."
     
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    While it is true that you can't be on a site like these without seeing at least the occasional penis, simply being here means nothing in terms of your sexual identity. I am here only to find women who might enjoy looking at, talking to, playing with or sharing my cock. I don't cringe in revolt when a penis rears its ugly head...and I don't look for or have any interest in experiencing anyone else's. In the end (pardon the pun), your preference is not determined by your membership here...despite what some people would hope.
     
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    I am afraid my answer will be off-base, too, lol.

    In my book, every man, whether they are "straight" or not (by the way I hate labels, because they are so straight, and people and life aren't...), have an interest in the penis, whether they find it ugly or beautiful, whether they want to play with it or not, etc...

    Because the penis is a symbol of power and masculinity, as much as money, muscles or a man's suit can be.

    So I think one common reason for all of us to be is being intrigued by the penis and its symbology. All other reasons may be looked upon as secondary.
     
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    I came onto this site for simple advice and stuff as there's not that much info regarding a larger package
     
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    The guy who said that is the one who is closeted gay... also, guys will always say things like that in the presence of other guys... I bet he went home and logged on to the site you were discussing...
     
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    I suppose it depends on what your purpose is at the site. Some men here are curious because they enjoy having sex with other men with big cocks, or because they would like to know what it's like. Others, like myself, are curious about size-related issues and how they impact on sex with women. These are clearly two entirely different approaches to the same content. Even take a situation that many people would say is clearly gay: masturbating while looking at pictures of big dicks. But one person may be fantasizing about giving a blowjob, and another may be fantasizing about being the one with the dick. The second person may just have a problem of insecurity with his own body, but I don't think that implies bisexuality anymore than being jealous of some ripped guy at the gym. Who hasn't at some point day dreamed about having washboard abs? Same thing in my mind.
     
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    I believe that it depends on who's lying to themselves and who's not. I know for a fact that there are definitely straight men who come here, meet women, or even just converse with other men and it doesn't go "too far". However, I believe that once the heterosexual male starts to pursue sexual gratification and gets it from another's man "junk" on this site, then you have stepped into that closet. And no straight man can say "Just because I jerk off to other guys doesn't make me gay", because the only person he's trying to convince is himself.

    So no, coming to this site doesn't mean you're gay. What you do here is a completely different story.
     
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    I think you are 100% correct.
     
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    What goes on in your head, what makes the little demon push the button on arousal in your brains? That I think is what determines whether or not something is attractive. If it's gay, straight, what-have-you, who's to really judge anyway?

    All the same though, some things are best kept close to the vest. Nothing like getting removed off the surface of planet Earth by some funnymentallist with an agenda. :D

    Speaking purely for myself? I can look at men as an example, and be able to judge if they are attractive or not - to me at least. But the arousal comes when the right woman comes about. :D Did a few years in boot camp w/homosexual relationship that ultimately failed. It was all me - the brain just could not "get it", make it work, and my emotional disassociation in the whole affair is pretty much what killed it in the end.

    To each their own, respect their tastes and likes. :D
     
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    People are who they say they are I suppose.

    Is it up to the rest of us to decide who or what anyone else is?
     
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    I wonder if perhaps there are guys to whom obtaining an orgasm is the primary objective, and they will obtain it thru masturbation, a vagina, a male or female mouth or anus, frottage.
     
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    If a see what I have, I may run...

    How does merely looking at pictures of the very organ you possess as a man imply that a man is gay?

    Big dicks are all over straight porn. Some "straight" men like to see them.

    Besides, there are so many reasons a man be interested in looking at pictures of other men's penises (comparison, curiosity, asthetics, etc).
     
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    THE SAME FOR ME.
    Most of the times 99% i jump directly to women's galleries here, but there comes the odd time i check a guy's cock. But i never get arousal from it, just a curious mind, I don't get off thinking of guys...

    Some of us DO know we are straight, even if we can see beauty in another male on aesthetic terms, that is all.
     
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    I call bullshit on that dude's premise. Guys are endlessly fascinated by the penis whether they want to fuck someone with one or be fucked by one--or not.

    I wish we could get rid of insecurity and homophobia so people can just be who they are and roll with it.


     
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    Country you should stop advertising LPSG at work!:biggrin1:
     
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    If this site was exclusively made up of pictures and discussions of cocks, it would be a better argument. One can easily spend a fair amount of time here and avoid cock-centric discussions, and ignore galleries. There's lots of other stuff to do.

    For that matter, I'm not sure what "closeted gay" means, really.

    In any event... looking at penises and talking about penises doesn't make you gay. Having sex with men, or possibly fantasizing about sex with men, makes you gay (or bisexual). Unless you're a woman, of course.

    That is not to say that the discussion around this question shouldn't go in circles without resolution, of course.
     
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    Ive always said that if the ladies were not here, I wouldnt spend the amount of time I do here.
     
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