are you the sort of man

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you only change the subject because you know I am right
I don't mind that she got feelings of violence!
but no one condems her for her feelings, as you did tho that guy in the mysogonistic thread...
you are a hypcorit who DOES judge men more harshly then women despite claiming you do not
know you're right? know you're deluded, petty and nit picking, more like.

actually, i did not slate him at first. if you read the damn thread i became annoyed when he would not even respond to women. that's more than having a private feeling, that's crossing the line into discrimination and it's outright rude.
and had i slated a woman for that behaviour i doubt you would be throwing this little hissy fit.

onto ignore you go.
 
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Not a problem in the world, cept one. The mold broke, so there is not another one like me.
 

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know you're right? know you're deluded, petty and nit picking, more like.

actually, i did not slate him at first. if you read the damn thread i became annoyed when he would not even respond to women. that's more than having a private feeling, that's crossing the line into discrimination and it's outright rude.
and had i slated a woman for that behaviour i doubt you would be throwing this little hissy fit.

onto ignore you go.

if you ever treated a woman that way we could find out
being on your ignore list tho dosn't seem like a bad thing
you don't like to hear it like it is and I can't help that, you have to grow up and learn to live in the real world
 

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Both of my daughter's (31 and 25 years old) have told me they wish they could find a man like me. They look at the relationship, values and lifestyle my wife and I share and hope to find a man with similar characteristics to be their life partner.

My wife has helped me become a better man and father. It didn't all come naturally.
 
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Fixed it for you. As for me, I'm honest, honorable and have integrity and manners. In my day it was called being raised well and those who find these attributes desirable agree.
Nooo! I have manners too! - just bad ones. :wink:
And why would pissing in someone's pool be a deal breaker? :tongue:

Avoid. I'm the devil.
Look hot enough, so mebbe?
 

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After some introspection, my answer is no. There is a lot of room for improvement in my life and character in many respects when it comes to myself, and seeing how I would want nothing but the best for my daughter if I had one, she could do better than me, at this point in time at least.

Tis not to say that I do not have a high opinion of myself in certain respects as I do, but that is tempered by my dissatisfaction relating to other traits of mine that I perceive as flawed and that I need to work on to improve myself as a human being.
 

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don't describe yourself as not intelligent man
you know about your education and if your dependable or not
but obviously if you want them to have better then you, you are caring and if you can recognise flaws in yourself you are way more intelligent then most people
Aww, thank you. :smile: I don't have 'an education' (not beyond the age of about 15, anyway). There's a distinct difference between intelligence and knowledge, I can learn from a book - without a tutor. Unfortunately, without a piece of paper stating your qualifications/knowledge - you're stupid in the eyes of many people. I don't think I'm a bad person because I didn't go to Oxford or Cambridge, but growing-up - I wanted that sort of learning experience. It feels like a missed opportunity, that's all.

When I said 'education', I really meant the artificial concept of 'education'; the suggestion that you need several years of student-debt to be a decent member of society with a functioning brain. Sadly, because people have believed that false-notion for years - it's no longer false. Not completely, anyway. Everyone in my position is tarred with the same brush: We were all too stupid or lazy to get 'an education' and find a nice job. Not everyone believes that, of course. But, at the end of the day - I'm just another statistic. One that says I'm an unemployed, uneducated (and therefore unemployable) person. At the same time, I realise that if I'd been intelligent - I'd have seen beyond sickness and other problems and got some qualifications.

Regarding my dependability, it all comes back to the same thing. I can't promise to pay the bills (for example) because I don't have a job. Without an education, I can't get a decent job. I refuse to take benefits from the government or go back to a job with no morality, logic or basic humanity. So, pride is another factor meaning I (or someone like me) can't guarantee a good life. A strong, caring person would make such a promise and keep it, regardless of the challenges involved. I don't know if I could. It's like having a child, in many ways. I don't think I'd be a very good father. With that doubt in my mind, I know it's not worth the risk - they would be better-off without me. So, I don't mean to suggest that I'm a bad person - just that there are more suitable people out there.
 

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Aww, thank you. :smile: I don't have 'an education' (not beyond the age of about 15, anyway). There's a distinct difference between intelligence and knowledge, I can learn from a book - without a tutor. Unfortunately, without a piece of paper stating your qualifications/knowledge - you're stupid in the eyes of many people. I don't think I'm a bad person because I didn't go to Oxford or Cambridge, but growing-up - I wanted that sort of learning experience. It feels like a missed opportunity, that's all.

When I said 'education', I really meant the artificial concept of 'education'; the suggestion that you need several years of student-debt to be a decent member of society with a functioning brain. Sadly, because people have believed that false-notion for years - it's no longer false. Not completely, anyway. Everyone in my position is tarred with the same brush: We were all too stupid or lazy to get 'an education' and find a nice job. Not everyone believes that, of course. But, at the end of the day - I'm just another statistic. One that says I'm an unemployed, uneducated (and therefore unemployable) person. At the same time, I realise that if I'd been intelligent - I'd have seen beyond sickness and other problems and got some qualifications.

Regarding my dependability, it all comes back to the same thing. I can't promise to pay the bills (for example) because I don't have a job. Without an education, I can't get a decent job. I refuse to take benefits from the government or go back to a job with no morality, logic or basic humanity. So, pride is another factor meaning I (or someone like me) can't guarantee a good life. A strong, caring person would make such a promise and keep it, regardless of the challenges involved. I don't know if I could. It's like having a child, in many ways. I don't think I'd be a very good father. With that doubt in my mind, I know it's not worth the risk - they would be better-off without me. So, I don't mean to suggest that I'm a bad person - just that there are more suitable people out there.

I wanna be you when i grow up!:biggrin1: You are a hellava role model.

And to be honest i would want them to avoid all men. Until they at least had some basic ideas down about who to avoid and why. As for me though, no. Never have been. Never will be.
 
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I am the sort of man I'd want a female loved one to be friends with
I can say that with sincerity and without any consideration
I'm a bombass friend
unless you like to go out in public and do things
I'm not really good at that