Are you underfucked? Prompted by Rommette's post

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  1. Wyldgusechaz

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    The Onion had this really funny gag article on how porn stars feel underfucked.

    Nation's Porn Stars Demand To Be Fucked Harder | The Onion - America's Finest News Source

    My Gf thought it was funny but a couple weeks later she said most women are underfucked, that they want to be fucked harder. Now she is middle aged, so thats a different perspective from other women surely, but she believes most if not all women want to be pounded hard most of the time.

    In fact a woman on Craigslist complained EXACTLY about the same thing Rommette did:

    best of craigslist: Just fucking fuck me, already.

    Its always dangerous to generalize here on LPSG but I have never met a female who did not want mostly hard fucking. Not always but mostly.
     
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    First of all every woman is different but to answer you question am I under fucked - NO.

    I read the CL post and sorry to say but if you did what she wanted to ME, we wouldn't last very long.

    Pull my hair - fuck you asshole.
    Spank me - don't think so - turn offffffffff.
    Put my legs over my head - sorry no, thanks, thats uncomfortable.
    If you called me a "sexy little bitch" and "dirty whore" - our relationship would be over. Sorry, I'm not a bitch or a whore, that is derogatory white trash/redneck language, no offense I don't go to trailer parks to get laid. If that is the type of guys you like so be it.

    If it was our first time in bed and you just got on me and fucked ferociously, even if you lasted 5 hours it would be boring, you have to work up to that. The best fucks are ones where the tempo changes constantly as do the positions. Don't get me wrong, I like to be fucked hard, but we have to get there first. Sex is like am exciting football game, it should be 4th quarter 35-42 2 minutes reaming and the ball is on his 10 yard line, he's got 2 minutes to move the ball 90 yards.

    Do you see, the game didn't start with 2 minutes left, we've had 98% of the game already played, it's been exciting, fun and exhilarating but we all know the big finish - the last scoring drive has to be played out.

    I didn't join in on the other thread but IMHO hard fucking and only hard fucking is pretty juvenile, that's what we did in HS and college, hopefully as we get older we learn and move past carnal sex to a more emotionally fulfilling sex.
     
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    How long have you been married?

    Over 19 years my wife and I's sex play cycles some times it's the emotional love making for weeks on end.:smile:Other times it's the carnal ass slaaping hair pulling fast hard ride.:biggrin1:Why do we need to move past the carnal sex?:confused:

    As we have gotten older we have learned to take the moment as it comes.:cool:And I'll just bet my wife will not say she's underfucked,but I'll send her the link to have her own say on this.
     
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    I know you're gonna hate me for that, but that was absolutely hot.
     
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    I agree with Ed69. My experience is that as we get older we want more and more of the raw carnal fucking, not less.

    Concerning the hair pulling and ass slapping, thats a new thing for me, another arrow in the quiver. I did not know women wanted that till a couple years ago when I read some sex article in a Cosmo or something. Not all like it but a lot do.

    Pretend I was fucking you 3664, from behind, or in spoon or you standing against a wall bracing yourself with your hands, and I reached into your hair and grabbed it firmly but gently turned your face to me so your neck and throat was exposed for me to kiss and nibble while my other hand roamed over your thighs and and maybe pinched at your nipples, my guess is your response would be pretty intense, one way or another, LOL.

    I know you can't yank on a woman's hair like ringing a bell but Mercurialbliss said its ok to get a handful close to the scalp and most women I have found LOVE that.
     
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    I'm not married.

    And you took my quote out of context.

    "IMHO hard fucking and only hard fucking is pretty juvenile, that's what we did in HS and college, hopefully as we get older we learn and move past carnal sex to a more emotionally fulfilling sex."

    I love getting banged hard, by someone I know and like, but not all the time, even you said it in your post you "do cycles" and "take the moment as it comes."
     
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    I have sex with a very diverse age group - most young guys 21-25ish still do the carnal let me bang the shit out of you style. Somewhere between 25-30 men's style changes they get more erotic, more sure of the themselves and seem to realize that there is more to just sticking it in and going like a jackhammer.

    There are some women that generally like this, but in my world most women put up with it because they think guys want to do it. Porno's show this and guys think this is normal behavior so they ask girls. These ideas get leaked out into mass media.

    When I was younger I did things that guys wanted to please them, some of them I wouldn't do today, like A2M. I did it because I thought I was supposed too. I've gotten older and realize I don't need to do things I don't want to.

    I would turn you over, pull your hair and spank your bottom until you came. There did you cum? Was it good? Did it even excite you thinking about that?

    Most guys wouldn't find that tantalizing why would you think that I would?

    As I said before some women do like it, just like some women like watersports or bondage. But here is a little secret for you I know more woman that allow men to pull their hair and then complain about it later in a girls group than women who say it is hot and sexy.

    Generalizations are tough because you will always find the exception.

    Take anal sex many women have it to appease their lover, but they don't like it in general. I am in the minority on this one I like anal sex. What about facials, most women I know don't like it, but some will do it to make their man happy, I have done them when I was younger but won't do it now, I don't like them. What about girth, most women love it, not me I prefer length.

    In this case I happen to know a lot more women that don't appreciate hair pulling and think ass slapping is stupid than those who get a turn-on off it.
     
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    3664shaken.... say it ain't so!!! Women are individuals? What one likes another may hate? This is ground breaking shit!!!... lol
     
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    Yes my dear husband is right. I am not "underfucked" and I love having carnal sex just not all the time.:rolleyes:
    Ed69 and I love to play in the bedroom, sometimes it is emotional love making and other times it is that carnal sex play. Enjoy the moment for whatever it brings.:smile:

    Some say that that carnal lust is what we did when we were teenager and in college. First not all of us went to college after high school and second I really didn't care for sex as a teenager. It wasn't till I met my husband that I came to enjoy sex. I have to ask why do you have to stop desiring carnal sex just cause your "older". At the same time I have to ask Why do some feel like they have to have it hard and fast all the time? How boring is that just one way all the time, YAWN.

    It comes back to what the media shows us and you choosing to follow the media norm. I choose not to follow the media norm and have fun.:biggrin1:
     
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    LMAO - Some people get and some people don't! :rolleyes:

    There is no formula, I am not your last fuck so don't treat me that way - I am me. :biggrin1:
     
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    i think some women who are underloved,try to fill that void in the spirit
    via rough sex rarely finding it.

    some women just like the sensations of eroticism,whether it is pain or pleasure,to certain degrees and limits.

    most of the rough sex stuff is about ridding of anxiety.
    kinda like getting slapped to snap out of it,and find the new wave in the
    sex session.

    if the cock is burning because it is too thick,
    some girls like you to slap the ass at the right moment,it neutralizes the burn and lets her overlook the burn and cum really hard.

    i think alot of people see the ass slapping in porn
    and try to incorporate that whilst fucking and
    have no clue why they are doing it...and hence it is not timed right,
    and may not even have reason behind it.

    done right though,
    it is fun stuff.
    :wink:
     
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    I too am not underfucked. The whole hard fucking, slapping, hair pulling thing doesn't appeal to me. It is too violent and too typical of mainstream porn. I would feel as though I am being assaulted.

    If I am not in a dominant role as I prefer to be, I still prefer slow wet dirty rhythmic sex.
     
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