Are young women of today influenced by porn?

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I think porn has influenced both young women and men perspective of sex is like the younger guys (not all young men) have an unrealistic view on what sex should be therefore can't tell the difference between love and fucking and view many women just as sex objects
And younger women (not all young women) may feel that they have to conform norms or meet the expectations of what the young guys view sex as
 

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I think porn has influenced both young women and men perspective of sex is like the younger guys (not all young men) have an unrealistic view on what sex should be therefore can't tell the difference between love and fucking and view many women just as sex objects
And younger women (not all young women) may feel that they have to conform norms or meet the expectations of what the young guys view sex as

Definitely. It's sad, in my opinion. Many men think of women as more or less sex objects; women think they need to strip to get and keep a guy's attention... Why? Because that's what they've been taught by today's entertainment world.
 

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Definitely. It's sad, in my opinion. Many men think of women as more or less sex objects; women think they need to strip to get and keep a guy's attention... Why? Because that's what they've been taught by today's entertainment world.
Yes its sad don't get me wrong though I watch porn everyone in while and sometimes I'll see a chick that catches my eye and be like damn I would like to fuck her or what not but who isn't guilty of that
The difference is that the younger generation can't tell the difference between a fuck and love making
I don't think so
I've never felt pressure to emulate porn stars.
I can't help it if I'm naturally amazing in bed.
But it's all me, no porn.

Like I said many young women, not all young women, may feel that they have to conform to what young men may view as what a sex life should look like
Its not wether you are amazing in bed
Its about how porn may have twisted the view of sex for the younger generation
 

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it doesn't influence me. i've never liked the stuff, preferring erotica over fake plastic shite.

but i see it's influence in others. my teenlet tells me about the things her contemporaries are coming out with, the girls' body image issues, the boys' expectations of female form, the pressure to perform a billion and one sex acts and the fear that they are failures if they don't love it all.

my younger sister, who adores porn, constantly angsts about her natural looking bust, and her biggest pregnancy fear was whether she'd have time to shave her minge before the docs saw it when she went into labour.
 

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it doesn't influence me. i've never liked the stuff, preferring erotica over fake plastic shite.

but i see it's influence in others. my teenlet tells me about the things her contemporaries are coming out with, the girls' body image issues, the boys' expectations of female form, the pressure to perform a billion and one sex acts and the fear that they are failures if they don't love it all.

my younger sister, who adores porn, constantly angsts about her natural looking bust, and her biggest pregnancy fear was whether she'd have time to shave her minge before the docs saw it when she went into labour.


Wow, that's pretty crazy! I agree with you on hating the fake/plastic porn. I don't understand how that could turn anyone on.
 

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Wow, that's pretty crazy! I agree with you on hating the fake/plastic porn. I don't understand how that could turn anyone on.
she also gave up breast feeding after a couple of weeks because she thought it was making her sag.

the irony of this is that i fed both of mine for six months each and i'm perter now than she is, stopping didn't save her bust at all, so she denied his the best start for nothing.
 

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she also gave up breast feeding after a couple of weeks because she thought it was making her sag.

the irony of this is that i fed both of mine for six months each and i'm perter now than she is, stopping didn't save her bust at all, so she denied his the best start for nothing.

Yup porn does more bad than good to some folk
 

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By no means do I think porn should be banned at all - but I do wonder about what difference it makes that when I was a kid we found porn in bushes, or later on as a teenager - waiting ridiculously long times to download a single image. Kids now have access to footage of virtually every fetish, without any prior barometer that indicates to them what's considered 'normal-ish' and what's starting to delve into specific fetishes or whatever. Like rough sex - in reality, that's something you build up trust with a partner if that's what you're both into, but in porn it's often presented as just a given between total strangers. There's not technically anything wrong with that either, but the frequency of it does kinda seem like a kid could walk away thinking that was just normal every-day behaviour.

I just worry that girls especially are suddenly feeling pressured to just take certain behaviour, because porn more or less left them with the impression that sex was the distorted thing they saw on the net.

I'm not exactly sure what my rambling point is here, really.
 

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she also gave up breast feeding after a couple of weeks because she thought it was making her sag.

the irony of this is that i fed both of mine for six months each and i'm perter now than she is, stopping didn't save her bust at all, so she denied his the best start for nothing.

Haha that's what she gets for being so naïve.

what if they watch amateur porn? is that bad?

God I hope not - that's what I watch. That and homemade. The more realistic and passionate, the better. Like I said, the fake pornstar videos are so offputting.
 
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God I hope not - that's what I watch. That and homemade. The more realistic and passionate, the better. Like I said, the fake pornstar videos are so offputting.
yeah like when I do watch porn I don't really watch the smutty porn I like more of the x-art type porn
 

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yeah like when I do watch porn I don't really watch the smutty porn I like more of the x-art type porn

X-Art is also the standard that I go by but I often wonder if I am on the edge or would I be be considered a "Prude" by the majority? I have no idea what the happy middle might be. That bothers me a bit. :confused:

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Both genders are brainwashed by porn.

Porn is only entertainment, it's not a tutorial or how to. lol..

Call this a strange analogy, but does playing FIFA 12 make one good at real life football?
 

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Everyone is influenced by porn. Whether you watch it or not, you are going to be experiencing things in the real world based on the fantasy world of sex. You will be directly or indirectly influenced by it in some way. It's too strong of a force not to be.
 

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Everyone is influenced by porn. Whether you watch it or not, you are going to be experiencing things in the real world based on the fantasy world of sex. You will be directly or indirectly influenced by it in some way. It's too strong of a force not to be.

lol.. speak for yourself.
 

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Is it a bad thing, in your opinion?

Personally, I think women (at least ones around my age [22]) think they need to try to emulate these pornstars (and actresses on TV, in movies etc) because they see and hear their boyfriends/crushes fantasize about them... and they want to be what these guys desire. I believe these infatuation with pornstars is mostly due to the guys' large amount of porn watching and wanking.

Some guys actually try to emulate the male pornstars as well, which says a lot about today's young men and how their views on sex have been molded by porn.

Unfortunately, these misconceptions of sex from porn and what they see on TV has somewhat degraded what sex (and especially making love) is really supposed to be like. These shows are not reality.

Completely agree!