I go to the gym, and I swear, everyone/anyone 21-22, and under, is completely bare. I don't go to a "gay gym" either. Is this really common now? I'm guessing porn might have something to do with this, no hair making your cock appear bigger. I trim, but I don't shave or wax. I'm not against it, mind you, but it just seems to be a standard thing now. I did hear from someone that their girlfriend won't dare blow him if he has pubes. He was 19. I guess women might feel that if they're going to shave, the guy better too. I just remember the days when shaving was a "gay thing".