Arrested for public sex?

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    arkfarmbear New Member

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    Public restroom sex is the subject of an earlier thread.
    I'm wondering if anyone on lpsg has been arrested for it? Every place I've lived had laws prohibiting public sex and, if caught, the consequences were horrible and had a life-long negative impact on the person.
    Most of the guys were married with families. Most had jobs/careers that were wrecked by the arrest. Preachers were frequently in the group. The local news media frequently published the mug shots for all the world to see.
     
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    Yeah, you get arrested and have your life ruined unless you're a Republican Senator, in which case you're life just becomes a pop culture joke.
     
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    I think one way or another, it has been illegal to have sex in public places of countries I have lived (Netherlands, Spain, Switzerland etc) BUT I still managed :p
    once i was kicked out of a disco because i was banging a girl in the girl's bathroom, but i was lucky that the gorillas that kicked me out were only concerned about me leaving, they filed no complains. Those risky situations have provided me some of the best sex of my life, in fact that specific time is probably the 2nd best sex i ever had, we had all: she blew me, i fucked her in her vagine and ass, it was such a hot experience :)
     
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    I've been caught having sex on the beach, but wasn't arrested. It was Labor Day weekend, and the police had worse things to worry about, so they let us go with a warning.
     
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    I was caught in the back of my vehicle with bondage cuffs on. We didn't get arrested though, the cop asked us if we had been drinking.. to which we replied no, and he walked away with an embarrassed look on his face.
     
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    If I recall there is cruising website called Squirt.org that tells how to deal with the law if you get arreseted in public areas. And no I haven't been arrested.
     
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    The laws on public sex here mean that if you are caught and convicted you can be put on the register for life and there are many jobs and other activities that you will be banned from.

    Sex should be kept in private for that and other reasons.
     
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    When I was 16 I picked up a BYU college student/return missionary who was rather hot. He had no place to go. I had no place to go. But my father owned a chunk of farmland along Utah Lake. He got in my car. We drove to my dad's chunk of farmland, driving down the right-of-way road and parked on a bluff on my dad's property with a nice view of the lake. We were going at it like minks on a blanket in the farm shed when five Provo policemen showed up. We were completely naked engaged in a hot and heavy 69 session. After they made the usual "faggot" jokes and belittled us, they made us get dressed, handcuffed us and drove us to the Provo Police Station. After booking us for trespassing and lewd public behavior I was interrogated first. The cop asked "Do you know whose property you were trespassing on?" I answered, "Yeah, my father's." An hour later they begrudgingly let us go, despite catching us engaged in "an illegal sex act." Their first mistake was having entered private property without a warrant. The second mistake was arresting someone who had every right to occupy the property. Their third mistake was "breaking in" to a private, locked building and destroying property (the door lock).

    Years later when I applied for a Realtor's license in Ewetaw I had to get a police record report to submit with my application. There wasn't anything on record of me having done anything -- ever. However, the BYU student who I had picked up (he was 19, muscled blonde gymnast) killed himself a year after that incident. Seems he was from some sort of "prominent" mormon banking family in Las Vegas and they did their usual "You have sinned against god. You're going to Hell!" bull shit, burdening him with so much guilt that he couldn't deal with it. The reason the Provo City Police followed us out of the city and into the county (which was illegal) was because the police had been alerted by BYU Honor Code shit heads that the kid "might be gay, so keep and eye on his activities."

    They never formally arrested either of us. After all, they could have nailed him for having sex with a minor, but they didn't. However, I'm certain the mormon witch hunt against gays, which is still in full force at BYU, caught wind of the incident and was directly involved in his depression and sense of guilt and can be held responsible for the tragedy of him killing himself. Sadly he was not the first gay student or return missionary made to feel so ashamed that he or she thought the only way out was suicide. And this still happens with uneccessary regularity with young people attending BYU.

    If any young gay men or women who read this are attending BYU and having problems, feel free to PM me. There's no reason anyone should be subjected to the shit and lies and mental torture directed at gays "discovered" attending that pathetic excuse of a "university." They still believe gay sexuality can be "cured" by negative response behavior techniques (electric shocks when viewing gay porn - no electric shocks when viewing heterosexual erotica). Ironically, it's widely recognized that BYU has the largest collection of pornographic materials in the State -- which are illegal. I can direct you to gay social workers and therapists in Salt Lake City who can help you break free of all that crap, help you find legal representation, and help you transfer to a real university more concerned with your education and success at becoming what ever you want to achieve rather than castigate you for your "imorality." You'd think after 50 years the sweet spirits would be more enlightened, but they are not. They lie.
     
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    Believe it or not this really happened in a rest room by Aloha Tower along the pier when I was in the navy. I was standing (or you could say loitering) by the urinals, and this guy stands next to me. There is obvious cock flashing and arousal going on, but no touching. Next thing I know he is flashing a police badge at me and starts pushing me against the wall. All I can say is that you have never suffered extreme shrinkage until something like that happens.
    I´m facing the wall and my navy dungarees are down at my ankles. The undercover cop starts frisking me, patting me down, moving up the insides of my legs. This being my first and only time in this situation, I figured it was routine. Then he gropes me from behind and literally starts tearing my briefs off of me - like in shreds and shards. Suddenly, Shrinkage is starting to do an about-face.
    To make a very long but enlightening and enjoyable story short, he was a gay cop on vacation in Hawaii, and this was his thing (giving heart attacks to young hung gay servicemen I reckon). He was into collecting shredded briefs too. And he was way too much of a nice guy to report him. Besides how often do you get the satisfaction of being bigger than a cop?
    But the best part was the cute Filipino dock worker who came in and caught part of the act. True story as unlikely as it sounds.
     
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    Sounds hot! What happened after he shredded your underwear? :wink:
     
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    i got arrested back in 1986 in long beach, ca. 2 hot cops at the public restroom at the beach. it was hell but i did manage to plead it out as "disturbing the peace" instead of lewd and misconduct. paid fine and 2 yrs probation. do talk to a lawyer before you say anything to the cop or a d.a.
     
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