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As a gay man,can you accept to have sex with a transgender woman and even get topped?

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I think the problem here is that people want to categorize people in defined sexualities. Not 100% sure i am allowed to comment on this post as I've only got 1% gay on my profile, but even then I'm not sure about that to the point of thing does it really matter? It's a spectrum and one that varies, I have zero desire for men but I find trans women attractive and yes I want to suck a trans women's cock. So on this website a lot of people would get very angry about me saying I'm straight because I want to suck a cock nut I just think I have an innate attraction to women and I'm more open minded than most so why not think about different. I think this is the reverse of a question that gets asked many times on the straight man forum and I thnki I'd have the same answer.
 
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It's like a question staying in my mind forever.I notice there seemingly more and more alleged gay performers and content creators have sex with transgender woman and mostly they are bottom.I don't know if they just collaborating or simply lying about sexuality.Either way regarding to me is literally confusing

First thing first, we need to agree on one crucial premise.Gay men are the men who are exclusively attracted to man both romantically and sexually ,right?In this case, it’s absolutely unimaginable and unbelievable for me that a gay man feel comfortable and pleasurable to being topped by a woman?Don’t get me wrong.I like watching trans porn which even triggers some kind of BI inside me.I have followed plenty of trans woman twitter and only fans.However the major reason I am doing this is that I want to see the hot straight/BI men(alleged but limit to trans women, so plz stop calling yourself BI)get fucked than I am attracted to TS . After a period of exploring this journey and that's when I found some gay men were also involved.I still remember how shocked I was when I came across one twitter that is about a hung trans woman who was in an outdoor gay festival and quite a few gay guy eagerly and impulsively came over to suck and get fucked.Hopefully,I was wrong about them and they were straight/bi, which would have made some sense to me


I couldn’t help asking why.If it’s all about business and collaboration,it couldn’t explain what I saw in twitter.If some defend it’s about sexual desire flexibility,that would be nonsense.Being topped by transgender woman is almost like being strap-on by a woman.If that is sexually accepted by a gay men,I would say how about we call the entire human race pansexual.If it’s because that they are desperate and horny bottoms and want every dicks in their mouths and their holes, that could explain somehow, but still I am highly skeptical if that kind of urge can really break the limits of sexual orientation. If possible,it could be my greatest shock of the year.Before this post,I talked with several friends about this and all of them are on my side and some even thought this kind of idea grossed them out.

Anyway,I still want to hear what you guys think,especially those gay amigos who had this kind of experience
Yes I can. I’ve bottomed for a trans woman and it was fucking great.
 
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I don't know...

I consider myself 1% straight because I had sex with a woman and I actually enjoyed it, but I'm seldom attracted to feminine features. The guys I usually find attractive have thick beards and a very hairy chest. I also prefer them to be tall and have a little bit of a dad bod. So I don't know if I could ever find a trans woman attractive, even if she has a dick.

Personally, I believe most people are attracted to secondary sex characteristics rather than genitalia or genetics (who even cares about that?). That's why I've found myself very attracted to some TRANS MEN, because regardless of whether they have a dick or not, or were assigned female at birth.

Like, you can't look at Jamie Raines and tell me he's not and you wouldn't sleep with him...
jammi.dodger_242793356_561784791541602_9185248909416697896_n.jpg


Sadly, he's straight.
 

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It's like a question staying in my mind forever.I notice there seemingly more and more alleged gay performers and content creators have sex with transgender woman and mostly they are bottom.I don't know if they just collaborating or simply lying about sexuality.Either way regarding to me is literally confusing

First thing first, we need to agree on one crucial premise.Gay men are the men who are exclusively attracted to man both romantically and sexually ,right?In this case, it’s absolutely unimaginable and unbelievable for me that a gay man feel comfortable and pleasurable to being topped by a woman?Don’t get me wrong.I like watching trans porn which even triggers some kind of BI inside me.I have followed plenty of trans woman twitter and only fans.However the major reason I am doing this is that I want to see the hot straight/BI men(alleged but limit to trans women, so plz stop calling yourself BI)get fucked than I am attracted to TS . After a period of exploring this journey and that's when I found some gay men were also involved.I still remember how shocked I was when I came across one twitter that is about a hung trans woman who was in an outdoor gay festival and quite a few gay guy eagerly and impulsively came over to suck and get fucked.Hopefully,I was wrong about them and they were straight/bi, which would have made some sense to me


I couldn’t help asking why.If it’s all about business and collaboration,it couldn’t explain what I saw in twitter.If some defend it’s about sexual desire flexibility,that would be nonsense.Being topped by transgender woman is almost like being strap-on by a woman.If that is sexually accepted by a gay men,I would say how about we call the entire human race pansexual.If it’s because that they are desperate and horny bottoms and want every dicks in their mouths and their holes, that could explain somehow, but still I am highly skeptical if that kind of urge can really break the limits of sexual orientation. If possible,it could be my greatest shock of the year.Before this post,I talked with several friends about this and all of them are on my side and some even thought this kind of idea grossed them out.

Anyway,I still want to hear what you guys think,especially those gay amigos who had this kind of experience
This is wrong on so many levels. What about femboys and drag queens? Never mind the answer isn't important.
 
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It's like a question staying in my mind forever.I notice there seemingly more and more alleged gay performers and content creators have sex with transgender woman and mostly they are bottom.I don't know if they just collaborating or simply lying about sexuality.Either way regarding to me is literally confusing

First thing first, we need to agree on one crucial premise.Gay men are the men who are exclusively attracted to man both romantically and sexually ,right?In this case, it’s absolutely unimaginable and unbelievable for me that a gay man feel comfortable and pleasurable to being topped by a woman?Don’t get me wrong.I like watching trans porn which even triggers some kind of BI inside me.I have followed plenty of trans woman twitter and only fans.However the major reason I am doing this is that I want to see the hot straight/BI men(alleged but limit to trans women, so plz stop calling yourself BI)get fucked than I am attracted to TS . After a period of exploring this journey and that's when I found some gay men were also involved.I still remember how shocked I was when I came across one twitter that is about a hung trans woman who was in an outdoor gay festival and quite a few gay guy eagerly and impulsively came over to suck and get fucked.Hopefully,I was wrong about them and they were straight/bi, which would have made some sense to me


I couldn’t help asking why.If it’s all about business and collaboration,it couldn’t explain what I saw in twitter.If some defend it’s about sexual desire flexibility,that would be nonsense.Being topped by transgender woman is almost like being strap-on by a woman.If that is sexually accepted by a gay men,I would say how about we call the entire human race pansexual.If it’s because that they are desperate and horny bottoms and want every dicks in their mouths and their holes, that could explain somehow, but still I am highly skeptical if that kind of urge can really break the limits of sexual orientation. If possible,it could be my greatest shock of the year.Before this post,I talked with several friends about this and all of them are on my side and some even thought this kind of idea grossed them out.

Anyway,I still want to hear what you guys think,especially those gay amigos who had this kind of experience

I find very interesting how you present your thoughts and experience.

I detect a general confusion as to how this whole thing can happen, and this lack of understanding seems to cause a sense of fear/rejection.

The way I see it, you either consciously or unconsciously have vested yourself as gay gatekeeper, assuming some sort of preexisting standards, codes and rules as your own.
This is not necessarily something bad, it just happen as we grow up, we learn and internalise certain behaviours that we assume as our own even though they are part of our primary socialization (family).
As puberty hits, our sexual learning comes from the secondary socialization (peers, media, collectives...). So trying to get our head around certain things might not even be an option as we have not been given the appropriate tools.

Think of "learning shapes", the childhood toys we all played with. You had a set of forms and shapes, and matching holes where you had to put them through. The triangle with the triangle, the square with the square, the circle with the circle, and so on, but, before anyone learned to match shapes, we all started to fit things in, regardless, and so the triangle would fit inside the square, and the circle inside the square, and you could put them through sideways, this is how sexuality (and pretty much every social construct created around a natural occurrence) works in society. We play with everything, we have our favourites, and then we are taught what fits with what, and from then on we are struggling to understand why I get turned on by another homo sapiens sapiens when I'm supposed to be "exclusively" excited by a particular homo sapiens sapiens.

Anything Trans related just makes our brains implode because it not only doesn't fit within our learnt social constructs, it blows them to pieces. As a result of this, we now have to endure gender studies aka another futile effort to force the triangle through the triangle when we are all just a bunch of sand that could fit through any shape.

Apologies for the TED Talk, the complexity of your post did not allow for a yes or no answer.
 
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Of course - the only important thing is a dick. If there's a dick then I will be happy being fucked - as a gay man it doesn't matter to me whatever other characteristics there are of the person the dick is attached to.
 
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I don't know...

I consider myself 1% straight because I had sex with a woman and I actually enjoyed it, but I'm seldom attracted to feminine features. The guys I usually find attractive have thick beards and a very hairy chest. I also prefer them to be tall and have a little bit of a dad bod. So I don't know if I could ever find a trans woman attractive, even if she has a dick.

Personally, I believe most people are attracted to secondary sex characteristics rather than genitalia or genetics (who even cares about that?). That's why I've found myself very attracted to some TRANS MEN, because regardless of whether they have a dick or not, or were assigned female at birth.

Like, you can't look at Jamie Raines and tell me he's not and you wouldn't sleep with him...
View attachment 67638931

Sadly, he's straight.
Not me. I am attracted to the primary sexual characteristics. Genitalia is the key.
 

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No, I'm a gay man. I only like men who look like men. It's not rocket science. This shit keeps getting asked and peddled here by porn addicts who don't even know they have a problem.
There are now people who say that gay men who are not attracted to transmen are transphobic. How ridiculous is that?
 
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There are now people who say that gay men who are not attracted to transmen are transphobic. How ridiculous is that?

That's completely ridiculous. Sexual attraction is in your mind. One can't force their brain to feel sexually attracted towards someone. It's not transphobia if someone is not sexually attracted to a Trans person, it's just a preference.
 

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To directly answer the topic after some thought: I am not a bottom so there would be no topping from her. I would be open to trying sex with a transwoman and I suspect I would enjoy it but not to the degree I enjoy sex with cis men.
I don't know...

I consider myself 1% straight because I had sex with a woman and I actually enjoyed it, but I'm seldom attracted to feminine features. The guys I usually find attractive have thick beards and a very hairy chest. I also prefer them to be tall and have a little bit of a dad bod. So I don't know if I could ever find a trans woman attractive, even if she has a dick.

Personally, I believe most people are attracted to secondary sex characteristics rather than genitalia or genetics (who even cares about that?). That's why I've found myself very attracted to some TRANS MEN, because regardless of whether they have a dick or not, or were assigned female at birth.

Like, you can't look at Jamie Raines and tell me he's not and you wouldn't sleep with him...
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Sadly, he's straight.
That is definitively an incriminating photo many gay men would conclude is super sexy. I consider myself gay and I have to say I want try fucking that guy, vagina or not, that is just me though. I’m willing to agree I may be bisexual because lf. But I have never had sex with anyone who was transgender after transitioning or a woman. Maybe I have sex with a person who has a vagina and I say, no, I’m not bisexual I’m gay.
There are now people who say that gay men who are not attracted to transmen are transphobic. How ridiculous is that?
This precisely. This narrative men can have sex with other men and still be straight still plagues the portrait of gay men and our sexuality. I’ve seen people on this website claim men can want to suck a penis and still be straight. And they don’t even get ridiculed.

I think anyone should be able to have whatever sexuality they want. But if you want to suck a dick through a gloryhole you’re not suddenly straight because the person you sucked off was a transwoman. The same has to apply for gay men who want to fuck a vagina as a result.

I will share with all of you this clip of this 22 year old woman who looks like she’s 8 years old.


To quote @Jujues08 , it’s simply bizzare and opens a whole can of worms on sexuality. If someone were to find that adult woman attractive, who looks like a little girl, are you attracted to little girls or women? This a rhetorical question to demonstrate the effects of sexuality and appearance.

I would suggest looking at discussions of a similar topic here for everyone — https://www.lpsg.com/threads/what-is-the-definition-of-a-“man”.5992331 .
 

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I don't know...

I consider myself 1% straight because I had sex with a woman and I actually enjoyed it, but I'm seldom attracted to feminine features. The guys I usually find attractive have thick beards and a very hairy chest. I also prefer them to be tall and have a little bit of a dad bod. So I don't know if I could ever find a trans woman attractive, even if she has a dick.

Personally, I believe most people are attracted to secondary sex characteristics rather than genitalia or genetics (who even cares about that?). That's why I've found myself very attracted to some TRANS MEN, because regardless of whether they have a dick or not, or were assigned female at birth.

Like, you can't look at Jamie Raines and tell me he's not and you wouldn't sleep with him...
View attachment 67638931

Sadly, he's straight.
Jamie's bisexual, actually! And I'm not sure why he's never mentioned on this site, he seems like he'd be everyone's type lol. I can't imagine someone looking at him and not wanting to fuck the shit out of his ass, let alone myself.
 

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Jamie's bisexual, actually! And I'm not sure why he's never mentioned on this site, he seems like he'd be everyone's type lol. I can't imagine someone looking at him and not wanting to fuck the shit out of his ass, let alone myself.
What’s his socials
 

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This precisely. This narrative men can have sex with other men and still be straight still plagues the portrait of gay men and our sexuality. I’ve seen people on this website claim men can want to suck a penis and still be straight. And they don’t even get ridiculed.
This is really nuanced. Some guys who have sex with men still identify as straight because they're romantically attracted only to people of the opposite sex. It's all who owns the experience who gets to name it really. But are you saying those people *ought* to be ridiculed for this?

To quote @Jujues08 , it’s simply bizzare and opens a whole can of worms on sexuality. If someone were to find that adult woman attractive, who looks like a little girl, are you attracted to little girls or women? This a rhetorical question to demonstrate the effects of sexuality and appearance.
I watched this one, and all I could think about was her experience, and how she feels? It presents a really interesting double standard, because this person is a full fledged adult, so what happens when she wants to have a sex life all of her own? I don't think anyone would say that makes her a creep too, so where is the zone that she gets to operate in?