As a gay man

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  1. DaveyR

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    What do you look for in a sexual partner? Do you want a man's man or a man who understands you as a gay man? I'm not saying the two things don't go together but in my experience they haven't.
     
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    Well, if I'm a straight man on LPSG, I think I'd really enjoy having a big fat cock in my mouth...oh wait...I'm straight... wait, what am I doing on here oggling sexy men...

    If I'm playing the role of myself, I like the idea of a man who's a guy's guy. I'm not overly attracted to men who are feminine (though, I have nothing against them). I suppose that as a bi guy I have the luxury of saying this:

    If I want a woman, I'd have sex with a woman... and if i wanted a man, I'd have sex with a man.

    I'm not saying that gay men who are feminine are bad... because they are great people in their own regards. I'm just not attracted to them.
     
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    As a card-carrying hedonist and glutton, I want it all. But mostly, I want someone who understands me. Period. :wink:
     
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    Where is the chuckle smiley?



    OMG understands you? I'm getting on in years and aint got that many left!
     
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    I have no preconceptions, no check list, he can understand me or not, getting to understand eachother can be a process you go through, what matters is chemistry, that instant spark of something indefinable.
     
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    Is, "... a man who understands you as a gay man," code for, "effeminate?"
     
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    You got it :smile:

    Nah Jason - no effemninancy here :redface:
     
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    Freudian slip?

    I really don't get what you mean but then I'm inexperienced so I can't say. I tend to agree with Hilaire though I don't know how idyllic his response is.
     
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    Nancy? well busted :redface:
     
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    S'ok. I tend to be attracted to masculine men and I don't come across as effeminate either. If that dooms me well, then so be it.
     
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    It far from dooms you :smile: Buuut you knew that anyway.
     
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