As a straight guys do u ever get hit on by gays and how do u handle it?

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“You look like you’d like to suck my cock—-

if I’m outa line —sincere apologies

if not— I’d like it too”

i consider myself straight—no attraction—-but number of guys who have swallowed my clock maybe indicate a little disclosure

Guys are superior cocksuckers
 

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Lol...I am a firm believer that in most cases of straight men's perceptions of gay men's interest is a reflection of how women tend to receive interest from that particular man. At work, or school I've found myself being eyed or mentioned as attractive by gay guys but never to some point of uncomfortability. I have seen instances where perhaps the gay guy sees some low-key homoerotic tendency in a guy, or has a over the top reaction to a homophobic rejection, but I doubt theyre the norm. I don't think I trip "gaydar" nor do I make some concerted effort to project "straightness" so I think I avoid persistent interest.
Interestingly enough I've observed gay guys seem to take genuine rejection better than women a lot of times
 
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Many times

Handled it In many different ways, from : a simple no thank you , to Sorry i have a GF.
Throw in a harmless good humored joke and a good time is had by all .

The flip side of this is the hey I can not take a hint guy , The guy you have politely said no to already , the guy who sees you with a lady and still stalks you in the store / bar / club . The guy who for some reason ends up in the bathroom at the same time as you do.
 

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I've never knowingly been hit on or propositioned by a gay man. Is their gaydar so good that they sense that I'm totally straight? I'm not Brad Pitt/George Clooney or male model good looking, but I'm also not hideous in any way (plenty of women have told me I'm a nice looking guy).

Have I been oblivious to a gay man's interest in me? Maybe. I know that I've missed signals from women in the past and only realized it when it was too late to do anything about it.

What would I do if a gay man expressed interest in me? I'd say I'm flattered but I'm straight, and married.
 

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I dress conservative, I am not an exhibitionist.

’old cowboy’ is true.

so—-had an accident with barb wire, crotch area. Not earth shattering, but got infected. Very, very itchy, a lota readjusting. Etc. more than I was conscious of doing, I guess.

and coincided with a couple weeks when I had to deal with lotsa the public.

nen, women, chickens—-just kidding about the chickens…..Holy Moly!
What a revelation!

anyhow, to answer question—-I’m happy and secure in my masculinity—make no secret of appreciation of male cocksuckers—-
 
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I've been hit on several times, and most times the interactions are respectful once i make it clear that I'm not interested. I actually have told people it's flattering that they find me attractive, regardless of the fact that I'm not attracted to men.

Only two times i can remember where guys were out of line. One was a guy who tried to kiss me without consent in mid conversation (he was very lucky I'm not a violent person, but i did put him in check), the other was a guy in a gym who was way too assertive, he absolutely was a sexual predator and that was the last time i visited that gym. Made me realize just how much of a creep guys can be, and what women have to deal with. Not cool.
 
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Doesn’t happen that often where another guy actually says something. Maybe my imagination that a gay guy is checking me out. But I can tell you I was with my girlfriend at her parents house, and they had some random friends over for a cookout. This older guy was standing next to me putting food on his plate, getting seconds at the same time as me, when his small talk included this question to me, “So what do you besides looking good all the time?”

At the time I didn’t catch on quickly enough to be flustered or embarrassed. I just answered him back about my job and ate my food.
 

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“You look like you’d like to suck my cock—-

if I’m outa line —sincere apologies

if not— I’d like it too”

i consider myself straight—no attraction—-but number of guys who have swallowed my clock maybe indicate a little disclosure

Guys are superior cocksuckers
totally agree..guys know how to do it and how it feels being sucked
 

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Oh, yeah, the GOLD'S GYM where I used to work out, some dudes have approached me in the locker room with simple questions, then introducing themselves to me and asking where I socialize.
I usually just smile and inform them I have a girlfriend and am content with her.
Some get the hint, others will further pursue and ask if I've ever thought about a three way.
A simple "NO" is always forcefully retorted, followed by a calm complaint to the gym manager.
 

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Crazy how guys are answering this question while talking about how they get blowjobs from guys.

Yall really don't know how to read, do you?
It has been proved time & time again on the Straight forums.

Gay guys can't read!
 
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This all confirms my experience, which is that many (maybe even a majority) of Str8 guys enjoy getting their Cock sucked more than they care who's doing the sucking. Who cares, as long as everyone is happy?
Well, that would be consistent were a lot of us not that particular of one sex/gender with regards to sexual socializing.
In which case, the results of rebuff or unrequited should not be met with surprise nor unexpected.

But I think I recognize your trap question of all good no matter who does it, so long as it's end result is to weed out phobics.

Summed up shortly, wrong forum for you to solicit if that truly is the postulation you wanna maintain.