I have a different story. I worked in a popular, and therefore busy, Sports Bar and Restaurant for 10 years. I worked as a Server, Bartender, and eventually as the General Manager. In my early Bar and Server days, I was pretty open about my sexuality. I didn't offer it up, but if I was asked , I would tell. Eventually, once the STR8 guys found out, I was subjected to a playful-horsing around environment. More slaps on my ass, more sexual innuendo, playful grabs, dry humps, etc..(I miss those days..)Did I ever hook up? No. But, every STR* guy, even the hardcore Christian ones, respected me. I think it was b/c I refused to be defined by my sexual preference. I believe they respected that.