I've been openly gay since the age of 18 and I've had more straight guys hit on me than gay guys (especially at college, when everyone seemed to be curious about blowjobs).
Depending on the situation, I've said the following:
- Sure, when?
- I know your girlfriend (or you have a girlfriend), so, no.
- No. You'll freak out afterward. Too religious (or conventional) not to.
- No. Just because you're a man and I'm gay, it doesn't mean that I'd want to do anything with you, sexually.
- Thank you, I appreciate the compliment. But I'm in a relationship.
I guess it's all in the communication. :smile:
NCbear (who still gets hit on, by all genders and orientations--just a little less often these days :wink
