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Funny, I was having this conversation with someone just the other day.
I jokingly referred to myself as being asexual as I really have very little desire to engage in sexual conduct with someone. A hookup or so every five to ten years is enough for me. Perhaps that's subconscious in nature or due to the zoloft or all of the above -- some would say repression -- but I honestly don't care. A few years ago, I had a personal massage scheduled for me while I was in Montreal. I paid for an hour's massage and ended up kicking him out after about 35 minutes becaause I just wasn't interested.
To date, I've never found anyone who can give me the pleasure I can give myself. As for the other components of a relationship, I have those fulfilled through the wonderful group of friends I have around me. As for the sexual component of the physical -- well, I have that well in hand...
I jokingly referred to myself as being asexual as I really have very little desire to engage in sexual conduct with someone. A hookup or so every five to ten years is enough for me. Perhaps that's subconscious in nature or due to the zoloft or all of the above -- some would say repression -- but I honestly don't care. A few years ago, I had a personal massage scheduled for me while I was in Montreal. I paid for an hour's massage and ended up kicking him out after about 35 minutes becaause I just wasn't interested.
To date, I've never found anyone who can give me the pleasure I can give myself. As for the other components of a relationship, I have those fulfilled through the wonderful group of friends I have around me. As for the sexual component of the physical -- well, I have that well in hand...