Asexuals Who Never Used Their Dicks

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  1. nakeddad

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    For a long time i've been thinking about asexual men who never fucked anyone in their life. probably they jerk off but it is out of question. maybe they are shy, asexuals or sth like that.

    Really curious about those guys.

    So do you know somebody, friends, relatives, coworkers etc. who never fucked other than masturbation till death.
    i believe that since we were created with it we should use it what it deserves.
    any comments?
     
  2. dongalong

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    I work with a 40+ year old obese guy, he's not the kind of guy you can talk about girls with, he's more passionate about model airplanes.

    I haven't asked whether he is a virgin though.
     
  3. Deno

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    Ya, I have a comment. What is it anyones business what someone else does with there cock. And how would you manage to find out if someone was like that. Do you make a habit of asking people if they ever fucked or not. I certainly could imagine someone being gay and thinking anal sex wasn't for them. Some are gay and bottoms some are gay and tops. Some like blow jobs and some just like blowing there load.
     
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    I think you should talk about this subject with a priest.

    I'm sure that he can enlighten you.

    BTW an asexual lacks sexual desire, so masturbation would not interest them. :wink:
     
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    Do not be so daft! As Dreamer20 rightly said: they would not masturbate as this is a sexual activity.:rolleyes:
     
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    kindof like the difference between atheists and agnostics, there are some asexuals who masturbate, and some extreme asexuals who don't, then there are also some bottom gay guys who've never fucked (and maybe not been fucked either) I have met some of each type (socially lol)

    then some people go through phases of feeling asexual... I once went for a year without sex ... I think it's mainly psychological although there may be some physiological aspects to it too

    In any case I think it would be wrong to judge anyone for what they do or do not do sexually or to try to convert them, although different practices are always interesting to hear about ...
     
  7. kkemigide

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    Im asexual, I guess... I'm 21 and I've never had sex, and never have any desire to have sex. I masturbate, and also engage in other sexual activities with Men and Women, but LITERALLY the act of sex is completely uninteresting to me. It's odd.
     
  8. Freddie53

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    I would define asexual as a characteristic of a person whose only sexual outliet is masturbation. The word asexual means the species can reproduce by members creating new members of the species.

    I would say that a person who only likes to masturbate, tno do anything else is asexual.
     
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    Funny thread....
    I guess that i'm becoming asexual for having experienced a little too many disappointments in relationships. All of my life i've been involved with men who either wish were with some one else or that were already completely in love with some one else. The first 3 men i had anal sex with each one of them gave me gonorrhea (at 18!) and since then i'm completely paranoid to where i put my dick. My first real boyfriend kept accusing me to be too "soft" and left my sexual self esteem way down. My very last ex boyfriend turned out to be a real disappointment. I thought that i found the perfect guy (long distance relationship) and i recently discovered (by secretly reading his emails) that he's a real lothario....So for the past two years i had sex maybe 4 times (at the bathouse) or if i masturbate i just do it to get it over with, but have no desire for any sexual encounter. I'm also really married to my work, . I keep a profile on MANHUNT and i check it daily but never hook up with any one. I always feel."what's the point?" Plus i'm too paranoid of vd....Maybe it's a stage...
     
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    I do not think I consider myself assexual however, I choose to refrain from casual sex as I think highly of myself and choose not to be another notch on somebodies bed post besides since my partner died almost 4 years ago, I have yet to meet a man who has qualities that I could come to admire. And personally I would not bother with a man who has sex more than 5x a year.

    Those type of men are what I call "man whores" and not the type I would associate with. And to that end, I have nothing to prove in bed and most men could never keep up with me anyway. And that is the fact jack. I would rather jackoff and be done with that foolishness...

    Thanks for listening.
     
  11. sbeBen

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    So how would you define a person who masturbates and someone who has no desire to masturbate?:confused:
     
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    Stress can make a man asexual
     
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    Posting when half asleep usually ends up with a post that doesn't make sense.

    In the biology world asexual refers to species that individual members of that species reproduce without matting with another member of that species.

    I would define asexual as a person who is in love with himself and masturbates without aid of fantasies of other people or a person who just doesn't have a sex drive and doesn't have sex or masturbate.

    In short, a person without sexual preferences at all as opposed to a bisexual who has sexual feelings for both genders.
     
  14. snoozan

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    i've met a few people who truly considered themselves asexual. at least one of them was autistic, and had little interest in people in general but was high functioning enough to interact with people online. i don't know if she masturbated.
     
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    I thought that was an "autosexual" (maybe I just made that word up:biggrin1:) person. Any way it would be interesting to find out if self confessed asexual people do masturbate. I know that when I am stressed or depressed I have very little interest in sex and do not masturbate either. I'm confused!:eek: :tongue::biggrin1:
     
  16. nakeddad

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    guys maybe i used the wrong word ''asexual'', all i wanted to learn if there is a male who never had sex with another person, ''male or female'', in his life.
     
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    priests and nuns should be asexual people
     
  18. sbeBen

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    Yes, that is a better way of putting it.:smile:
     
  19. dreamer20

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    Not according to scripture. In reality for them and most humans sexual attractions and urges are common.
     
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