This is an interesting thread, because before I moved to where I am now (Japan). I found Asians pretty, but was never romantically or sexually attracted to them. Now since being here, I find them incredibly hot. I can also say that the stereotype of Asian dudes all having small dicks is a huge misconception somehow perpetuated back in the West. Most guys here are average same as the West and a very good many are also above average. Also, the whole misconception of height is also false, not every guy here is short, in fact I've met a ton taller than me and in the 6ft range. Funny how misinformed and ignorant things were back in the West, sadly I fell somewhat into that thinking too, but with an open mind, glad I know the reality now as I live here haha.
Nippon e yōkoso! :wink: In which part of the country are you living?
I wish you the best of luck with everything here in Japan. You seem to be a rational person, and you have a good attitude, so I think you should be able to get along pretty well with folks here.
I have had essentially only one major problem since moving to Japan: everyone presumes that I am not interested in cultivating a long-term relationship because I am an American, and therefore I "obviously" will return to the US within a few years. Another facet of this problem is that many people presume that I
am interested in one-night stands and other sorts of fooling around, such as being a boy toy for married men. In other words, although I have met plenty of Japanese men who are attracted to me enough that they desire to have sex with me, I have met very few who are interested in seriously dating me.
If I were forced to name another problem that I have faced since coming here, it would be that all but one Japanese man with whom I have become sexually intimate this year has been excessively well endowed, which has resulted in my having to endure various discomforts. :redface: Yes, this has been more of a pain in the ass for me personally than March's great earthquake. Of course, I know that there are plenty of average-sized and small Japanese guys out there; one of my old Japanese friends from college in the US is actually very modestly endowed. I guess I've just been unlucky (or perhaps too lucky) this year.