Ask a Black Girl Anything . . .

[marleyisalegend]

Question is, what are most black women (i.e. not "gang bangin' hood rats") attracted to? And don't say, the same stuff every woman is attracted to, because if that were true, a lot of different women would have said something to me.

Wow, not to intrude but you seem to adamantly reject the idea of black women having normal desires and seem insistent that their desires are alien and outta-this-world and completely different from everybody elses. Would you be disappointed if it turned out black women ARE attracted to the same things and have the same values as every other woman?

 

[Principessa]

It seems to me that a lot of the black women who have been attracted to me, always comment on my height or awkwardness. The first woman I did anything with was a very beautiful, very stacked black woman. She flirted with me for about a month, but me being me, I didn't pick up on it. When she just asked the question,

she said she was attracted to my height, my intelligence, and how I am awkward/geeky.

Question is, what are most black women (i.e. not "gang bangin' hood rats") attracted to? And don't say, the same stuff every woman is attracted to, because if that were true, a lot of different women would have said something to me.

Not all black women are attracted to the same thing so that's impossible for me to answer. I can tell you what I am attracted to in a man; but I am so not the typical black girl.

Wow, not to intrude but you seem to adamantly reject the idea of black women having normal desires and seem insistent that their desires are alien and outta-this-world and completely different from everybody elses. Would you be disappointed if it turned out black women ARE attracted to the same things and have the same values as every other woman?

I think some LPSG guys would be disappointed with that answer. :frown1: You have no idea how many white guys under 30 have asked that I either take their virginity or be their first black woman.

Probably been said before but this thread rocks!!!:veryhappy:

Thank you! Like most attention whores I never get tired of hearing people sing my praises. :biggrin1:

Hello Black girl, I don't think you are black at all, do you think you could get naked and show me?

See my gallery for proof.

How many white bits have you got?

Five, the palms of my hands, the soles of my feet, and my teeth.

I thought I should ask this, why are black women attracted to me? I'm not being mean, I like any woman who's attracted to me, but most of the women have been black. I'm a 6'3" skinny, lanky guy, not that handsome, but more black women have been attracted to me than any other type.

I have no idea, I have never seen you in person. It should be stated though that we aren't all shallow. It's not just about your face, we like a personality and a brain as well.

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

Thank you for replying. I was wondering when Marley became a black woman.

 

[Principessa]

Thank you for replying. I was wondering when Marley became a black woman.

Didn't you get the memo? Gay black men think just like straight black women. :biggrin1:

 

[trentster]

I didn't mean anything by it Marley, but it seems that black women are more attracted, or at least come up to me, more than any other race. That said, I was wondering if there was a reason this was true.

 

[marleyisalegend]

Thank you for replying. I was wondering when Marley became a black woman.

I didn't, but you don't have to, you just need a little common sense. Believe it or not, black women aren't robots that were built all the same, apart from society, and they don't always need to be explained with a fucking instruction manual so keep your smart-ass comments to yourself unless you're going to atleast use .00001 ounces of common fucking sense.

I didn't mean anything by it Marley, but it seems that black women are more attracted, or at least come up to me, more than any other race. That said, I was wondering if there was a reason this was true.

I understood what you were getting at, and it was a good question except for the part where you insisted that their desires HAVE to be different. The fact that they come up to you more could simply be explained by you living around lots of unshy black women. In some areas, "boldness" is evenly concentrated, in others the white girls stay quiet while the black girls approach men, in others it's the black girls who stay lonely while the white girls have the balls to do the approaching.

 

[tiggerpoo]

Dear Black Woman (NJ)

Why is my black gf the most beautiful sexy woman ever created?
Why is she the best looker, best lover, best friend, I've ever had?
She puts lead in my pencill, rocks my boat, sends me to the moon - and more.
Why does she love me??? :wink::smile::veryhappy::biggrin1:

 

[Penis Aficionado]

This is quite a job you've taken on, njqt466 ... that's brave of you!

So here's a question ... what's with the animosty that a lot of black people seem to have toward gays? I should say I haven't experienced this myself -- the black people I've known well have all been extremely gay-friendly -- but that was when I lived in New York City so it maybe wasn't a representative sample. But just from comparing black popular culture to white, it definitely seems like there's more anti-gay feeling there.

 

[trentster]

Dear Black Woman (NJ)

Why is my black gf the most beautiful sexy woman ever created?
Why is she the best looker, best lover, best friend, I've ever had?
She puts lead in my pencill, rocks my boat, sends me to the moon - and more.
Why does she love me??? :wink::smile::veryhappy::biggrin1:

Because that's what you think of her.

 

[Principessa]

Dear Black Woman (NJ)

Why is my black gf the most beautiful sexy woman ever created?
Why is she the best looker, best lover, best friend, I've ever had?
She puts lead in my pencill, rocks my boat, sends me to the moon - and more.
Why does she love me??? :wink::smile::veryhappy::biggrin1:

I'm guessing because you are richer than Croesus. :biggrin1:

I didn't mean anything by it Marley, but it seems that black women are more attracted, or at least come up to me, more than any other race. That said, I was wondering if there was a reason this was true.

Trentster darling, don't worry about it, just enjoy it. There are millions of men around the world that would give their eye teeth to have what you have and have black women be attracted to them.

I didn't, but you don't have to, you just need a little common sense. Believe it or not, black women aren't robots that were built all the same, apart from society,

and they don't always need to be explained with a fucking instruction manual so keep your smart-ass comments to yourself unless you're going to atleast use .00001 ounces of common fucking sense.

Watch the language young man. I understand why you're upset, but I'm used to this stuff I can handle it.
I understood what you were getting at, and it was a good question except for the part where you insisted that their desires HAVE to be different. The fact that they come up to you more could simply be explained by you living around lots of unshy black women. In some areas, "boldness" is evenly concentrated, in others the white girls stay quiet while the black girls approach men, in others it's the black girls who stay lonely while the white girls have the balls to do the approaching.[/quote]That's true. Me, I'm shy and old school, I may flirt, but I never approach men first. As a matter of fact the more attracted to you I am the more likely I am to become tongue tied and even more shy which is sometimes mistaken for being a snob. :redface:

 

[flame boy]

My hubby says all black women will find this question a touch difficult:

"How Stella...." or "Waiting To Exhale"?

 

[trentster]

I agree with the boldness thing, don't know why I realize it before. I went to a high school with a lot of gangstas, so maybe they approached me just because they wanted a nice guy before anyone else.

 

[Principessa]

This is quite a job you've taken on, njqt466 ... that's brave of you!

Brave or stupid, I'm still not sure which one it is yet. :tongue:

So here's a question ... what's with the animosty that a lot of black people seem to have toward gays?

Actually, this is a question better suited for Marleyisalegend; but I will take a shot at it.

Culturally it's still mostly unacceptable. Many black people especially in the south are very religious. Most of your major Christian religions do not accept homosexuality. That's it... it's just that simple. It should also be noted that homosexuality is also frowned on in the Asian and Latino communities.

I should say I haven't experienced this myself -- the black people I've known well have all been extremely gay-friendly -- but that was when I lived in New York City so it maybe wasn't a representative sample. But just from comparing black popular culture to white, it definitely seems like there's more anti-gay feeling there.

You moved from New York City, to Texas and you ask that question?!?! Are you stupid? Seriously, what's that about? Why do gay people move to the south then act all surprised and upset when they are confronted by blatant homophobia? If I had a gay child I would forbid them to move south of the Mason-Dixon line. I also wouldn't allow them north of Boston. New England is beautiful but it can be incredibly intolerant.

 

[marleyisalegend]

NJ that was a BIG factor, the religious one. Black culture has strong ties to religion and the (MISCONCEPTION) that the bible condemns homosexuality translates into strong anti-gay sentiments.

Another aspect of it is machismo. Being a black man is ALL about being big and rough and tough and homosexuality is a contradiction to that, the stereotype of someone "gay" is someone who's campy and light-footed so it's met with hostility from black men who feel like they have to prove how much of a man they are, and feel like all gay men are feminine and weak.

From what I've seen, on the female side it's religious and also a bit of the "you took my man" complex. Some black women loathe white women thinking that white women "took all the good black men" and they feel the same way about gays. They're afraid to let us near their boyfriends since, somewhere along the line, they got the idea that homosexuality is contagious. This isn't far from the truth cuz I know many messy gays who'd LOVE the opportunity to break up a happy home, and many brothers who claim to be straight when they secretly LOVE man-sex so the paranoia is NOT unfounded.

 

[tiggerpoo]

[/b] I'm guessing because you are richer than Croesus. :biggrin1:

Thanks for your reply. You're a great girl.
Well, maybee that has something to do with it.

But all her previous bf's were good looking, muscled, hung-like-a-horse guys that were complete losers; factory workers, job hoppers, jail birds, hustlers who fucked every girl in town.

She says I'm different. Perhaps I'm not good looking, muscled or hung, but otherwise, she says, in every department, I'm packing. Never met anyone like me - she says. :biggrin1:

 

[Penis Aficionado]

NJ,

Actually I moved to Austin, which isn't the same as moving to "Texas" at all. I really *haven't* been confronted with blatant homophobia -- like I said, my question was coming more from my sense that black politicians, musicians, comedians and other cultural figures seem more anti-gay than white ones. Although of course a lot of white Christian conservatives are extremely anti-gay, which fits in with the religion issue you pointed out ... anyway, thanks for answering my question!

 

[Principessa]

Thanks for your reply. You're a great girl.
Well, maybee that has something to do with it.

But all her previous bf's were good looking, muscled, hung-like-a-horse

guys that were complete losers; factory workers, job hoppers, jail birds, hustlers who fucked every girl in town.

Yup, been there done that. For some odd reason that is the kind of black man I have always attracted in addition to the gangsta thug type.
She says I'm different. Perhaps I'm not good looking, muscled or hung, but otherwise, she says, in every department, I'm packing. Never met anyone like me - she says. :biggrin1:

That's true. Sadly, it's usually easier for me to find good white men, than good black men. I say sadly, because there are so many beautiful black men out there but even the college educated ones are so busy trying to "keep it real" they are just too ghetto for me to stand.

Another problem I have run into lately is that a lot of the younger white guys think it's cool to talk, walk, act like a ghetto, gangsta, thuggish black man. It's not cool. In some cases it's hysterically funny, but for the most part it's just pathetic and lame. So the pool of available white men is growing smaller as well, because so many think it's cool to act like the lowest common denominator of black society.

 

[marleyisalegend]

^That last sentence.....amen girl, amen.

 

[Penis Aficionado]

And there are also lots of girls of the younger generation (both black and white) who somehow find that thuggish look and behavior attractive in a man ...

 

[Principessa]

And there are also lots of girls of the younger generation (both black and white) who somehow find that thuggish look and behavior attractive in a man ...

Yes, you are 110% correct.:frown1: However, I have always chosen not to associate myself with people like that of any gender or ethnicity.