Ask a Black Girl Anything . . .

[Mr. Snakey]

LOL you hold your first finger up, then tip toe out.

Nothing wrong with that as long as its the first finger....

 

[mista geechee]

This is to all my fellow black people.

Why does church last so long and why is it always so hot in there?

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

What the fuck are you talking about, are you on crack? Naughty AND NJ asked for my input once or twice and I've only given it one or twice. Stop drinking the anti-Marley koolaid, it's poison especially to NJ's wonderful thread.

Get off the crack. What you quoted me saying, and the reply don't match.

 

[Principessa]

LOL you hold your first finger up, then tip toe out.

And how do you know this? Have you been sneaking into black folks churches on the sly? :wink:

This is to all my fellow black people.

Why does church last so long and why is it always so hot in there?

I have no clue, which is a big part of why I am United Methodist. It's a predominantly white denomination and the services are rarely over an hour.

My dad was raised Baptist and my mom was raised AME the compromise after they got married was a United Methodist Church exactly 1 mile from our home. My dad liked it because the message was the same; but delivered in a more succinct fashion so that we could get to the beach before it got too crowded and closed. Mom liked that the order of service was almost exactly like she had grown up with in Philly.

Get off the crack. What you quoted me saying, and the reply don't match.

Alright you two stop it! If you are going to argue take it to PM.

 

[invisibleman]

This is to all my fellow black people.

Why does church last so long and why is it always so hot in there?[/quote]

• The preacher doesn't want to go home to his wife's cooking. (WHEN YOU MARRY...you had better know how to cook WELL or you marry someone who can cook, loves to do so, and you like what they cook.)
• And the church's AC is on the blink. Have to sell a lot of fried chicken and fish dinners to pay for a new AC for the church.

 

[invisibleman]

No, I think that's a male thing more than a woman thing. In spite of my preference being white men it has less to do with their skin color. It's more about who he is as a person and the fact he likes me.

It does have everything to do with skin color if your preference IS for white guys. And it goes without saying that the guy has to like you and you have to have an affinity...unless you go for the white men that don't like you. :smile:

 

[bigdicksarebest]

Why do a lot of Black women said HMMM UHHH and a lot of Black men say " You know what I mean?"

 

[Principessa]

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It does have everything to do with skin color if your preference IS for white guys. And it goes without saying that the guy has to like you and you have to have an affinity...unless you go for the white men that don't like you. :smile:

I have never lain in bed with a white man and marveled at the contrast in our skin tones. Unless there are mirrors positioned just so I don't usually see him entering me. I believe that's what the question referred to.

I know it distresses you that I like white men Invisibleman, I just don't get why, since you're gay. :wtf2: I know I have said this at least 4 times on this site; but here I go again. :12: I usually prefer men of the same socio-economic and/or educational background as myself. I will not lower myself to the gangsta/thug type of any ethnicity. Since I grew up in an upper-middle class white neighborhood, that is the type of male I tend to be attracted to and whom I attract as an adult.

I strongly suggest you just deal with it or get over it. :angryfire2:

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

Mahalia? So do you have a favorite spiritual/gospel song? I have two, probably Precious Lord or No Ways Tired.

I've got 4 Mahlia LP's, yes they are old, and a bunch of her cd's. I like In The Upper Room, and Nobody Knows The Trouble I've seen.

 

[Principessa]

Why do a lot of Black women said HMMM UHHH and a lot of Black men say " You know what I mean?"

I think you mean MmmmHmm. I'm not sure. Maybe it's the blacks folks version of, uhm like ya know?

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

If you go on bleep tube, you can listen to the Davis Sisters, the Caravans, and the Barrett Sisters to name a few. They even have a few Willie Mae Ford Smith clips.

 

[invisibleman]

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It does have everything to do with skin color if your preference IS for white guys. And it goes without saying that the guy has to like you and you have to have an affinity...unless you go for the white men that don't like you. :smile:

I have never lain in bed with a white man and marveled at the contrast in our skin tones. Unless there are mirrors positioned just so I don't usually see him entering me. I believe that's what the question referred to.

I know it distresses you that I like white men Invisibleman, I just don't get why, since you're gay. :wtf2: I know I have said this at least 4 times on this site; but here I go again. :12: I usually prefer men of the same socio-economic and/or educational background as myself. I will not lower myself to the gangsta/thug type of any ethnicity. Since I grew up in an upper-middle class white neighborhood, that is the type of male I tend to be attracted to and whom I attract as an adult.

I strongly suggest you just deal with it or get over it. :angryfire2:

WHOA!!!

I am not a hater, girlfriend.

My point was that your argument was weak. Don't tell me that you have a preference for white guys and not say it isn't about race when you like white guys. That was my point. You still have to explain yourself over this. And this is one thing you keep forgetting.

I think that I have told you before that this is America. You can date anyone you want to date.

Trust me when I say this NJ, I have no distress over you liking white guys. I have my own concerns and who you date and who you like is not EVEN in upper echelon cache of my worries. Be happy.

This isn't EVEN a "deal with or get over" situation. It is "a guy guy telling you that if state that your preference is for white guys and you state in the same sentence that it isn't about race and I just let you know that you are contradicting yourself" situation. Whew! That was a long ass sentence.

 

[mista geechee]

Maybe it's the blacks folks version of, uhm like ya know?

Exactly.

 

[Supersized]

Why are black women so mean and violent?

Why do they only go out with drug dealers and ex-convicts?

Why if you don't agree to help them cheat on their fiances or husbands do they call you gay?

 

[naughty]

Why are black women so mean and violent?

Why do they only go out with drug dealers and ex-convicts?

Why if you don't agree to help them cheat on their fiances or husbands do they call you gay?

YOu are joking, right? Because if you arent you know you are going to get a "Negro , Please! " LOL!

 

[Principessa]

Why are black women so mean and violent?

Why do they only go out with drug dealers and ex-convicts?
Why if you don't agree to help them cheat on their fiances or husbands do they call you gay?

Black men with dumbass questions and attitudes like yours are why I haven't been with a black man since the Reagan Administration. :angryfire1:

YOu are joking, right? Because if you arent you know you are going to get a "Negro , Please! " LOL!

Slap him down girlfriend, cause I'm fixin' to take off my earrings.

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

Slap him down girlfriend, cause I'm fixin' to take off my earrings.

Run! It's the black woman's national anthem.

 

[naughty]

Why are black women so mean and violent?

Why do they only go out with drug dealers and ex-convicts?

Why if you don't agree to help them cheat on their fiances or husbands do they call you gay?

Ok.. I think I am going to answer the questions now as if they were legit.

1) WHy are black women so mean and violent.

As we all know , Black people are not monolithic. There are some black women who are mean and some who are violent. This stereotype is perpetuated in the media. Black women have not been conditioned to hold their tongues and many of them who are over worked worried sick and with no help may be short tempered or even depressed. Violence is a whole other dysfunction. Perhaps you might ask why were they conditioned to think that violence was acceptable behavior. There are women who have had to fight their entire lives in their environments. So they are conditioned to respond in this fashion.

2) WHy do they go out with Ex- convicts and drug dealers?

Many young women come from families with little or no male presence. They crave love and attention and strong male presence. Unfortunately many confuse a rough neck with a strong black man. You must also remember that many drug dealers are intelligent entrepreneurial spirits who in another life might have made it in business of a very different source. The girls are attracted to what they see as the outward trappings of success. These men are at least for a while able to provide them with things that perhaps other men in their aquaintance can not.

3)WHy if you dont help them cheat on their husbands or finaces do the call you gay?

I have NO idea. Once again you have unfortunately encountered some women with some very skewed values. Actually, I think perhaps they have developed poor self esteem. Perhaps these men have made them feel un wanted and they are attempting to show them that someone else finds them attractive. When you dont want to participate in their game they lash out at you by attacking your sexual preference. I have had men to the same to me when I didnt chose to be with them.

 

[D_Roland_D_Hay]

Why do blacks and latinos make such beautiful babies? If you don't have the answer...maybe we can try to figure it out together!

 

[naughty]

Why do blacks and latinos make such beautiful babies? If you don't have the answer...maybe we can try to figure it out together!

Oh my! PA, I do believe he has thrown down th gauntlet! :biggrin1: