Ask a Black Girl Anything . . .

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Well then, there may be hope for you after all. You would be surprised how many people do have this mindset, however. THen they wonder why they are sitting all alone.

Cuz we're paranoid and think everybody is a dishonest weasel, cuz 98.999% of em are, and even some real ones convert to weaselism so FINDING an honest person doesn't even guarantee an honest relationship.:frown1:
 

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Cuz we're paranoid and think everybody is a dishonest weasel, cuz 98.999% of em are, and even some real ones convert to weaselism so FINDING an honest person doesn't even guarantee an honest relationship.:frown1:


THere are never any guarantees that things will go well or be permanent. You have to make that decision for yourself as to whether it is worth trusting to find someone that might be viable vs not trusting and having the same old same old.
 

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THere are never any guarantees that things will go well or be permanent. You have to make that decision for yourself as to whether it is worth trusting to find someone that might be viable vs not trusting and having the same old same old.

All things considered, the same old same old will get you through some lonely nights.:wink:
 

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When it comes to finding that one, people tend to be ruthlessly picky. In fact many live by this credo, "I may be so so, but you better be damned near perfect". You can hold on to your perfect standard, but remember that you too will be judged by that same yardstick.


AMEN-TO-THE-HELL-YEAH!!!!
 

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I have my own extrapolations and theories. But I wanna hear from a black woman:

1.Why is there so much friction in the black community, mainly between men and women ?

2.Why is there so much uneasiness between lighter blacks and darker blacks ?

I know that there are several theories already offered from several prominent and/or infamous social scientist, commentators, authors...ect...ect.......but I want to know what everybody thinks themselves. From their own experiences.
 

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All kidding aside, great thread. It never ceases to amaze me what a weird world we live in -- the hatin' that STILL goes on just because of the color of your skin.

Especially these weird cracker honkey spawn who hate "blacks" but spend hours trying to get the perfect tan.....I know. My brother is a dense racist like a brick, but wants the bronze color to be a God. It would help if the little dwarf were taller than 5 foot four and didn't also have a Napoleon Complex to go with it. I have assholery in my family. Sorry folks. I grew up thinking for myself.
 

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LMAO! Prep and Hootie!

THe two of you should take your act on the road! LOL!

Prep Darlin',

What is with this weave ponytail thang? You know I dont need any more hair. I have a horse's tail hanging down my back now. As for the dreads go to my gallery and look at Lisa Bonet's love muffin. He looks fab in dreads. You however ... should get some thugaliscious braids.! LOL!
 

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1.Why is there so much friction in the black community, mainly between men and women ?

2.Why is there so much uneasiness between lighter blacks and darker blacks ?


Maybe it is another form of racism designed to bring us down. Intraracial disputes. Think about it. Maybe we aren't good enough to get along.

There is money in war.
 

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LMAO! Prep and Hootie!

THe two of you should take your act on the road! LOL!

Prep Darlin',

What is with this weave ponytail thang? You know I dont need any more hair. I have a horse's tail hanging down my back now. As for the dreads go to my gallery and look at Lisa Bonet's love muffin. He looks fab in dreads. You however ... should get some thugaliscious braids.! LOL!

Will you braid my hair so I have cool patterns to the braids?

Lisa Bonet's locks are a hot mess...if I had them, they would be neat.