^perfect way of describing it, love that.
Enjoying this tread, cheers AJ. Your honesty and openness is refreshing and very much appreciated.
Though I don't consider myself a jock (others may argue this point)
I do tend to find myself identifying and relating to many of your responses and experiences here.
Suppose I think along the same vein.
Where we may differ though, are my bizarre quirks and fetishes. (save that for later)
My question...Bathroom etiquette...
There have been times here and there where I get the "shy bladder" and can't piss even when I feel I'm about to explode. I sometimes don't like feeling the pressure to "perform" aka pee on command, when I am merely trying to relax in order to pee.
Have you ever been pee shy? if so, why? How did you deal with it?
Relating to that, do you ever "sneak a peek" at the urinal or have you noticed others doing it to you? If so, how did you handle it?
I can delve deeper into some pretty scary experiences I've been through that probably contribute to my occasional apprehension in using a urinal in a public restroom but will save that for later.
Thanks for the comments!
I've never had the "shy bladder" issue... Atleast not for what I gather would be the same reason. I do have trouble pissing if I'm at someone's place and I think they can hear me. I tend to turn the faucet on so they cant hear me over the sound if running water. Stupid I know. And a waste of water. I rarely do it... But to me, I hate the idea of being at a quiet dinner party and everyone sitting at the table can hear me pissing down the hall.
Anyhow - to more directly respond to your inquiry - I'm not shy. I love to show off. In fact, as I write this I'm sitting on a flight home where I will proceed to the baggage claim bathroom in Oakland b/c it is one of my favorite places to put on a show. I've talked about it before (I think probably in another thread), but there are no dividers, so when you walk in and turn the corner, your eyes are naturally drawn straight down the line of urinals. If I stand at the very end, with one hand in my back pocket, and my hips angeled ever so slightly so as to cheat out... Theres no avoiding an eye full of plump cock when one walks in. I enjoy the reactions and occassional attention. Ive seen more than one guy stand at the sink "washing his hands" with a gaping jaw watching me in the mirror. The AMC movie theater restrooms are also good for this.
Personally though, I dont think urinal voyeurism is nearly as popular as 30 minutes of reading LPSG threads might lead someone to believe. I feel most guys very deliberately stand in close, cup their cock with both hands, and fix their eyes down or on the wall in front of them. Most people arent interested in being perceived as a peeper or "creeper."
I show b/c it gives consent for those who want to look to look, and those not interested still dont. I myself am more into being gawked at than gawking on orhers, so I dont really pay attention to what others at the urinal are packing unless they're also showing and its too obvious not to look. But I dont really get excited by looking. I tend to do it more as a courtesy. "You obviously want me to look... I know how good it makes me feel when others eyeball me... So I'll make you feel good." It's just as kind and harmless as giving someone a hug who needs it.
Obviously, my 2 cent advice would be to get out of your own head b/c most people are just in the bathroom to piss. And if someone looks? So what? What happens next? Nothing. Alas, I know that advice probably over simplifies your neurosese and I definitely dont intend to minimize the issue for you.
Best of luck with that!
As for the Vegas story... Yes, by and far still one of the best sexual experiences of my life. It takes a speciel kind of girl to do that and unfortunately, that relationship was doomed for unrelated reasons. I am unattached to any one chick now and am having fun. Nothing like my tryst in Vegas, but I'm betting I'll find another girl into that someday soon... Or at least, webcam.... Here's hoping!!