So are most men who dress and groom themselves in an androgenous fashion gay or are most heterosexual?
Dors androgeny have anything to do with sexual preference, or is it more a social/fashion style like being goth or punk?
How do your folks feel about your androgeny? I ask because, I have a gay friend whose dad never liked his only son being gay; but eventually sorta accepted it. However, his dad never quite got over his son experimenting with a black girl in high school. To his Italian, cop dad it was better his son be gay and date Italian men then to be straight and date a black woman.
Well, androgyny isn't something you can obtain. You're either born with an androgynous look, or not. You could dress up Sylvester Stallone in a cocktail dress, put a crap load of make-up on him, and give him 7 inch stilettos and he'd still look like a guy, only in drag, lol. Androgyny is when a guy or a girl can dress up in the opposite sexes clothes and such and look like the opposite gender of what they really are without hormones or gender reassignment surgery.
Androgynous guys can be gay or straight. I've know a lot of girly looking men who have been 100% straight. They're out there.
My folks are pretty good about it. My mom doesn't care at all, in fact she loves having a gay son that she can go shopping with and stuff, lol. My dad is somewhat in the middle. I never really was close with my dad, but he always tells me he just wants me to be happy no matter what. And as for the whole dating different races, if I dated black guy, my parents wouldn't care, lol. We're huge racial mutts, so it's all good, lol.