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So,

Did you date black women merely for sexual gratification or did you like their overall style?
one of my best friends in high school was haitian ( little girl 5' 100 lbs) and i had the biggest crush on her so I never really looked at black women any differently than any other women. I had a black female i was friends with when i was 9-10 yrs old and she was like 16-18 yrs old. SO NO SAME CRAP FOR ME.

What exactly does that answer mean? I think you are saying you had positive experiences with black women so I am gathering you meant the later of my two choices.
 
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what im saying is i never looked at black women any differently since a young age, so dating a black woman to me is like dating any other woman. unfortunatly black women are the ones always acting like " are you goNna leave me for a white women" OR THE INFAMOUS " DO YOU ONLY DATE BLACK WOMEN"
 

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what im saying is i never looked at black women any differently since a young age, so dating a black woman to me is like dating any other woman. unfortunatly black women are the ones always acting like " are you goNna leave me for a white women" OR THE INFAMOUS " DO YOU ONLY DATE BLACK WOMEN"


Well,

Since each person be they black, white or otherwise is different I dont know if it is fair to say that black women all behave in that fashion. Perhaps it may be true of the ones you are associating with and that is rather unfortunate. Peace.
 

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Well,

Since each person be they black, white or otherwise is different I dont know if it is fair to say that black women all behave in that fashion. Perhaps it may be true of the ones you are associating with and that is rather unfortunate. Peace.
NEVER SAID ALL BLACK WOMEN OBVISOULY THE WOMEN I'VE SPOKEN TO. I JUST FOUND IT WEIRD BECAUSE I NEVER ASKED OR THOUGHT ABOUT WOULD YOU LEAVE ME FOR A BLACK MAN I FIGURED IF WE CARED ABOUT EACH OTHER ENOUGH WE COULD BEAT ANYTHING.
 

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NEVER SAID ALL BLACK WOMEN OBVISOULY THE WOMEN I'VE SPOKEN TO. I JUST FOUND IT WEIRD BECAUSE I NEVER ASKED OR THOUGHT ABOUT WOULD YOU LEAVE ME FOR A BLACK MAN I FIGURED IF WE CARED ABOUT EACH OTHER ENOUGH WE COULD BEAT ANYTHING.


Perhaps they had been made to feel lesser than by others and had been told that white guys might fool around with them but definitely would not be taking them home to meet mama.
 

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what im saying is i never looked at black women any differently since a young age, so dating a black woman to me is like dating any other woman. unfortunatly black women are the ones always acting like " are you goNna leave me for a white women" OR THE INFAMOUS " DO YOU ONLY DATE BLACK WOMEN"

That's because although we may find you smart, funny, attractive etc. we have to assess if you just have a fetish for black women, or if you actually like us. Sounds weird, but it happens. :redface:
 

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Perhaps they had been made to feel lesser than by others and had been told that white guys might fool around with them but definitely would not be taking them home to meet mama.
MAYBE NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN I HAVE DATED SAID THAT BUT QUIT A FEW HAVE. FUNNY THING IS THE ONES I'D TELL TO MEET MY PARENTS WERE THE ONES SAYING THAT. I DUNNO I GUESS THEY HAD PRECONCIEVED NOTIONS.
 

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MAYBE NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN I HAVE DATED SAID THAT BUT QUIT A FEW HAVE. FUNNY THING IS THE ONES I'D TELL TO MEET MY PARENTS WERE THE ONES SAYING THAT. I DUNNO I GUESS THEY HAD PRECONCIEVED NOTIONS.


Quite possibly. We have come a long way in race relations and unfortunately have a longer way to go.
 

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MAYBE NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN I HAVE DATED SAID THAT BUT QUIT A FEW HAVE. FUNNY THING IS THE ONES I'D TELL TO MEET MY PARENTS WERE THE ONES SAYING THAT. I DUNNO I GUESS THEY HAD PRECONCIEVED NOTIONS.
NO THEY DIDNT THINK THE FETISH THING BECAUSE THEY WOULD KNOW MY DATING PAST. AND THESE WERE ALL CLOSE AND SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS. I THINK I JUST DID A HORRIBLE JOB OF SCREENING IN MY YOUNGER YEARS
 

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Not To Sound Like A Dick But From My Experience And What You Seem To BE Leaning Too Also Is That Its Really Some Black Womens Insecurities Or Taught Thoughts Are The Reasoning Behind It.
 

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Not To Sound Like A Dick But From My Experience And What You Seem To BE Leaning Too Also Is That Its Really Some Black Womens Insecurities Or Taught Thoughts Are The Reasoning Behind It. sad
Well not for nothing but those learned behaviors /taught thoughts weren't invented out of thin air. They came about because of how we were treated by white people. Old habits die hard.