Asked out by an escort?

[amendmentx]

So I had a strange experience with an escort tonight. I've used them occasionaly in the past as they are pretty cheap here and sometimes its just easier/cheaper than going to a bar an picking up a girl that might end well. So anyhow the salon I went to tonight had about 5 girls I chose one that I liked we did our thing. However there was one other girl who I saw last that really wanted to me to choose her (however was really into this girl with tats). Anyhow was still feeling like more and had the money so I chose the last girl for my next hour. I really liked her positive attitude. Anyhow...

After she asked for my number and wants to hangout. I find this a strange and am not sure what to do...I made it quiet clear that i'm not up for dating her and what not but she was like we can still have fun etc. Weird? Should I take caution?

 

[GeorgeTSLC]

You mean, should you worry about her stalking you? Not very much--unless you notice her in places where she wouldn't otherwise be.

And there ARE female size queens. So I'm not sure that this is particularly weird.

 

[D_Woody Wilson]

Old adage: Never mix business and pleasure.

Nice in the short term, but can get pretty fucked up later.

 

[D_GlennFeckless]

Always take caution, with any relationship, even a NSA/casual one.

I was sleeping with a pole dancer back in the day and, while it was an ego boost to know that there were scores of guys beating off thinking of the girl I was taking home, it always felt a little uncomfortable to pick her up at work, especially if I got there early and went inside. Yeah, I know she was "covered" by the staff, but it still felt weird to see other guys drooling over themselves and shoving money where I was going to later put my lips.

A job is a job, and recreation is recreation; rarely do the two cross paths successfully. As long as you can keep them completely separate it's a cool thing.

 

[Endued]

She wants your money.

 

[amendmentx]

She wants your money.

Yea thats what I thought...she might be surprised because I don't have any.

 

[DevonTexas]

Wait, you can pick up escorts at a salon? I can only get my hair cut at them in Dallas!

But, you should go for it. Take chances and see what happens. Just beware that girls in this industry come with drama, ex boyfriends and girlfriends and whatever relationship you have with them gets ratchet up a few notches. Otherwise, the 3 I've dated were a blast - in and out of bed.

 

[D_Petherick_Poundlouder]

I've had this happen. Mainly because I have had a lot of sex with escorts for free. How? Dick pictures.

 

[amendmentx]

I've had this happen. Mainly because I have had a lot of sex with escorts for free. How? Dick pictures.

How did it work out for you?

 

[D_Sparroe Spongecaques]

Hmmm,i think she may be just wanting your money,making sure you don't book other escorts plus could you cope with your gf escorting for other guys?


Still,escorts are people too and do still have loving intimate relationships.

 

[flame boy]

I doubt the madam in charge of the escort service would be pleased to know her girl is attempting to arrange meetings with guys outside of her venue. I would personally advise extreme caution, if she is genuine about wanting to spend time with you she will find a way of doing that. I would say that while it's not impossible that she is for real, it sounds somewhat unlikely.

 

[BigfootTornado]

If it's just a lust sex kinda deal I'd go for it. Any mention of payment or relationship vibes you'll have to re-evaluate.

 

[amendmentx]

well its been made clear I don't want a relationship. She was cool (actually both girls were, most times they just do there business and leave, with both girls I went over my hour talking with them afterward which was cool and actually gave me a less sketchy feeling) I think it was more of a sex thing as she gave me more than I paid for, IE i paid just for regular sex but gave me everything else as well. If i decide to persue this I will def take caution. But the sex was pretty good and wouldn't mind getting it if it was free.

 

[hud01]

She wants your money.

Yea thats what I thought...she might be surprised because I don't have any.

If she wanted your money why would she fuck you for free.........If she is cute and good to be with, I say go for it. It is the same as anytime you start seeing a girl, even if it is NSA, you keep your guard up, but enjoy yourself.

 

[amendmentx]

If she wanted your money why would she fuck you for free.........If she is cute and good to be with, I say go for it. It is the same as anytime you start seeing a girl, even if it is NSA, you keep your guard up, but enjoy yourself.

Just to clear up I did pay. But the minimum. Anal, oral, cunnilingus, etc. were all extra charges but given for free.

 

[hud01]

Just to clear up I did pay. But the minimum. Anal, oral, cunnilingus, etc. were all extra charges but given for free.

She wants to see you outside of her work environment to hang out. I am saying you won't pay then if you have sex.

 

[houtx48]

come back when you stop flogging tuna.

 

[upone]

I worked in a business for about ten years where I got to know a lot of escorts (Nude photography--A lot of escorts model) and found that some of them enjoy talking. I was pretty careful because a lot of them are crazy, but I had relationships with several, and they were GOOD.

 

[Sergeant_Torpedo]

Escort? An escort is a man who accompanies a woman to a formal social function. Don't you mean prostitue?

 

[Bbucko]

About four years ago I was approached online by a hustler/rentboy/escort on Manhunt. As that website is all about mutually-attracted, non-payment sex I was kinda taken aback at first.

He proposed to me that he wanted a hook-up as a "dry run", to see if I'd be an appropriate as an occasional (paid) call-in when a second dick might be requested. I told him I wasn't looking that night and would give it some consideration.

I gave it a few day's thought: more than I ordinarily would have, because money was a real issue for me at that moment, but in the end I declined both the hook-up and the "job offer".