Asking a guy on a date

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    swimfan2473 New Member

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    there is this guy at AnF that i work with that i like. i know that he is gay and i want to ask him out but i've neva asked a guy out on a date before. does anyone have ne tips
     
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    Advice? Well, try just a casual chat. See if there is mutual interest. You work with this guy, might want to think this one over . Bruce
     
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    The better you know him, the more secure you'll be. If you just think he's hot, but don't know him very well ( in the sense that at the end of the day you're both gone without much conversation ) I'd be wary if I were you.
     
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    "what are you doing for dinner?..."

    "grab a beer after work?..."

    "I'm going to Denny's for lunch. wanna join me?..."

    "wanna fuck during break?..."
     
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    i like the "you wanna fuck during break" idea lol
     
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    Does "fuck during a break" quality as a date?
     
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    umm Im pretty sure it does
     
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    it does to me
     
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    Start hanging out with him at work, then hang out with him after work. Then go to lunch or dinner together, watch a movie or tv together. You will have been "dating" without being all formal about it. Then, once you know him better and feel more comfortable around each other, ask him out on a formal "date."
     
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    @Swimfan - Do you have some idea where you'd like to go or what you'd like to do on a date? Art has some good suggestions, as do others. You can date without making it a formal date.
     
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    I wouldn't risk it, as you're not good looking enough to work at AnF so I guess he'll turn you down straight. Life is tough
     
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    try a coffee date...it's easy. just say you want to go for coffee?
     
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