That's exactly what I was talking about earlier when I said "taking advantage of a vulnerable state". Anyone who would try to take advantage of a drunk man or woman, and get them to have sex knowing full well that it's something they would never do sober, actually does deserve to be punched. No, beaten senseless is more like it. So now I actually am at the point of violence.
That's absolutely despicable.
Also getting drunk is no excuse for asking in the first place. People are responsible for their actions at all times.
This is why I don't drink, and never have. I don't want to lose control of myself and do something I will regret. And I don't want to spend any time hanging out with drunk people that cannot control themselves. That kind of horseshit has never appealed to me.
You're aware that this nonsense is internally self-contradictory right? You either think people are responsible for their actions at all times (and therefore not capable of being "taken advantage of") or you think there are circumstances in which people are less responsible due to extreme intoxication and therefore more easily convinced into doing things they might not usually do, or indeed less inhibited about and responsible for propositioning other people for sex
Yes it is wrong to manipulate someone so drunk they are incapable of giving informed consent to sex in to having sex of some kind with you, no it is not wrong to foolishly proposition someone for sex when you are drunk, and no it isn't wrong to have sex with someone who is inebriated but still capable of giving informed consent to having sex with you.
I'll tell you one thing someone could definitely be responsible for though, beating someone senseless, drunk or not the law would hold you responsible for giving in to that disturbing streak of aggression you seem to have.
OT- depending on the appropriateness of asking a straight guy if he wants a blowjob and presuming you're fairly confident he wont get all "Alwaysguessing" with you about it there's no problem with doing so.
It's impossible to know what any given heterosexual guy might say to a request like that, they aren't all alike. It depends on what kind of person he is, the range of possible reactions is pretty broad.
If he has a GF it's much less likely he'd say yes (if that's what the OP is driving at), I'm not going to be all high and mighty about the sanctity of monogamy like some members have been, but it's worth remembering that propositioning straight guys with GFs puts you in a very specific kind of situation.
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