Asking a straight guy to suck his dick

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by fullofquestions, Jun 11, 2010.

  1. woodyq

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    at the time of my first experience with a guy i had been with women and while i may have found a penis in porn impressive never thought i'd touch or be touched. so a guy who has no idea if i am gay or straight asks me if i am single. he had a hot female workout partner so i answered honestly and said yes.
    i thougt he may be playing matchmaker. he said he found me hot, i accepted the compliment and inquired about his workout partner who he said was not single. he kept im'ing me asking what i was up to and if i was home alone bored he'd say need a beej? and i declined for a while. he started saying how he is so good and better than women. i agreed to a HJ and mid HJ he put it in his mouth. it felt a little too good to stop him. i wound up cumming twice while still in his mouth without going soft.
    great BJ. if enjoying it makes me bi so be it. felt just like when a girl blows me. i do not see myself having anal witha guy.

    if thread starter knows he has a gf it is different but when a guy hits on a single woman he assumes she is straight right? if a guy hits on a single guy is it fair to assume he may be gay?
     
  2. Harold81

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    Slightly off subject for a moment. First let me say to woodyq and maybe a few out there, that though I truly understand why many straight people associate gay sex with anal sex, let me tell you that you would probably be surprised at how many gay people do not engage in anal play at all. There are many alternatives to anal in the gay community and they are just as satisfying if not more so. Anal is common but not as common as most straight people think it is.

    With regard to the subject at hand, to be quite honest I am a bit on the fence. I have been attracted to many straight guys in my life and would have loved to have made that offer to them. I wanted to make the offer not because they were straight but because I simply thought they were attractive in some form or another. That is why I'm on the fence. If you find a guy attractive, soley based upon you being attracted to him, I say why not, you never know. If you have enough courage and are prepared for the possibility of a negative reaction, including violence, in the right setting you may want to try with the question.

    On the other hand, you know by now that when dealing with a straight guy you know your chances are slim in it actually happening. So part of me is saying don't even bother. What I have done is, if I find myself attracted to a straight guy and that straight guy knows I'm gay, I let him come to me out of curiosity, if he so has any curiosity. In most cases, nothing ever materializes and the attraction or crush eventually fades and I move on. I would suggest you do the same instead of just asking a guy if you could suck his dick.

    *note* If he has a girlfriend, ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!
     
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  3. dude77007

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    Some of the replies here about being supposedly straight and either too drunk to say NO or too drunk that you said YES, stirred a memory. Years ago I was on this business trip with a coworker, a three week work assignment. We would hit the Gentlemen Clubs every night and drink a lot. One night during the second week, I got real wasted, which I seldom did. My coworker had to help me to my room, fish in my pants pocket for the key and put me to bed. I remember being undressed and I remember thinking that I was grateful that someone was helping me, as I was in a suit and tie. The only other thing I remembered was my underwear being pulled down and his hand on my dick. I think he tried to suck my dick. I truly don't know if he did or I dreamed it. The next thing I remember was him waking me up at 7 in the morning ( we had a door between our rooms) I started thinking about the night before and remembered that he put me to bed. Then I thought about someone sucking my dick. He never said a word, even about the fact that I got real drunk or had to be put to bed. As I got in the shower, I looked at my pubes for dried jizz or something. I even checked the sheets, underwear and found nothing. I didn't know what to think.

    I was becoming bi back then, but this guy had a girlfriend at home and I know he screwed two girls from the district office while we were on the trip. He was sorta handsome and always gave the impression he got a lot of ass, always hitting on women. We never discussed my sexual orientation but I would assume that people where I worked figured that I might be "sorta gay", probably before I did.

    The funny thing was that by the middle of the day after trying to sort this all out, I found that I was the one that was uncomfortable and found it hard to make eye contact with him. He was just the same guy and didn't act any different. It kinda complicated the rest of the trip. I would have been a willing participant if I hadn't passed out, but I know that when I do pass out, a bomb could go off and I wouldn't wake up. Before and after that, we sat around on the beds many times in our jockey shorts and I had been eyeing the fact that he had huge head outlined in his shorts. I imagine that it was a fat beer can dick, thinking that I would love to have a few slides on it. But, instead he got me and I got nothing. Sometimes, I am sure this happened because I remember the sensation that I was so drunk and that I couldn't react to what he was doing. I am sure that I couldn't have cum in that condition. Then again, sometimes I think I dreamed it all up. But, as I write this, I am sure he got in my pants. He's now married and has a family.

    This share probably belongs in the "abused while sleeping" category but hearing shares about "straight guys" being blown while drunk made me think of this. Kinda of a twist, I think
     
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