Straight guy, I know, that is so hot. He likes me, we have mutual respect for each other. I've been thinking I'd love to have a pair of his underwear, for j/o. Not a fetish of mine, never done it, but: how to ask??? Should I provide a pair of his favorite(he'd probably be honest if I asked, before asking something like, "...could I get these back?") Don't want to make a weird-situation, but he's so hot, straight/married, yet I'm turned on by wanting to do this. Any advice? Thoughts? What should my initial-approach be?