Asking The Name Of Woman You Chat With?

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Just curious?! I know this is a sexual site and most men and women (perhaps all), come here to get sexually aroused, what not! I notice though some care to ask you your name and others don't even bother. Even though real names may not be exchanged what would be reason on the other end doesn't even want to know your name? Does it take away from the experience for most men...the novelty? Some men ask more questions than others...
 

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Just curious?! I know this is a sexual site and most men and women (perhaps all), come here to get sexually aroused, what not! I notice though some care to ask you your name and others don't even bother. Even though real names may not be exchanged what would be reason on the other end doesn't even want to know your name? Does it take away from the experience for most men...the novelty? Some men ask more questions than others...
Unless I wanted a real life encounter the real name doesn’t change anything.
But as any information of the real world can be used for example to stalk and blackmail.
 

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I Know the real names of many members; but I have never directly asked for one. Somem members , volunteer their names , while most name exchanges occur over time and with the building of trust . This trust at times extends beyond this site and into off line contacts
 

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I Know the real names of many members; but I have never directly asked for one. Somem members , volunteer their names , while most name exchanges occur over time and with the building of trust . This trust at times extends beyond this site and into off line contacts
Yes i understand what you mean..i know many that don't share their real name but share a name ....some don't even ask at all...no biggy..was just curious....
 
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I chat with quite a few women from here, our chats are private along with any exchange of photos and videos etc. If a woman (some have) wished to use their real name that's fine but if they don't that's also fine, I've never asked to know someone's name just because we're having a conversation I don't see the need. If it's someone I end up meeting up with then of course we'd exchange more personal things, whatever, don't even think of it to be honest.
 

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I don’t have an issue with giving my first name to anyone who asks,As you said, most come here for sexual arousal, it depends on the situation if names would be required, perhaps if an online intimate relationship develops, having a name to put to the person would make the experience much more real, if that’s what the individuals want
 
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I chat with quite a few women from here, our chats are private along with any exchange of photos and videos etc. If a woman (some have) wished to use their real name that's fine but if they don't that's also fine, I've never asked to know someone's name just because we're having a conversation I don't see the need. If it's someone I end up meeting up with then of course we'd exchange more personal things, whatever, don't even think of it to be honest.
Yes i understand what you mean..but its just a name ...its more personized like meeting someone ...thats all no biggy either way
 
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I don't think men actively don't want to know someone's name, I think it's like the rest of the internet and there's respect for people who desire anonymity.

Why did you not use your real name for your screen name, if it's just a name?
 

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I don't think men actively don't want to know someone's name, I think it's like the rest of the internet and there's respect for people who desire anonymity.

Why did you not use your real name for your screen name, if it's just a name?
I never indicated i wanted or would share my name! Perhaps my question was phrased wrong. I was just curious why some men ask and others don't. I assumed if askes they would leave it up to the women to decide if she wanted to share..plus if would share it would be "a" name more for personalizing the experience not my actual name...but i also get that a name is not part of the sexual experience on here for getting aroused :)
 
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I never indicated i wanted or would share my name! Perhaps my question was phrased wrong. I was just curious why some men ask and others don't. I assumed if askes they would leave it up to the women to decide if she wanted to share..plus if would share it would be "a" name more for personalizing the experience not my actual name...but i also get that a name is not part of the sexual experience on here for getting aroused :)

Is it a man thing, or a people thing? I would think responses would be as varied as personalities, independent of gender.

The same might be the case for why people are on this site. Sure there are a lot of people on here for arousal, but it seems to me also that a great many aren't.
 

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Is it a man thing, or a people thing? I would think responses would be as varied as personalities, independent of gender.

The same might be the case for why people are on this site. Sure there are a lot of people on here for arousal, but it seems to me also that a great many aren't.
Yes exactly..depending on the person is more what it is
 
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