jack65
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Hello
Quite good view points that have been posted so far, i would like to know how many parents have AS kids that relisze that they don't quite do the same things as there school freinds?, my boy ( going into high school next yr) has 3 friends that are close to him ( this has been for this yr only and is a great releaf to us for him to have these friends) the others tend to make fun of him because he jsut dosn't "get it" some times ( thats how they talk about or to him).
We have only tried to help him in the areas that he feels he wants it, thats to say things like smelling his food ( less now ) doesn't realy bother him,
yet makeing noises ( up untill last yr ) did, the way we "helped" him over come the noises was to "red flag " them ( my term ) every time he made these noises we would say hum and he would hum a song ( the same one ) until the day came when he just started to hum at times, the inprovement in the way he was treated by others at school was almost striaght away, which made him happy,
he often hums while doing school work or around the home ( we told his teacher that if he does hum in class just let him but if he gets to loaud then just tell him to be alittle quite with out making a big deal out of it & so far it has work well for him)
So back to the question does your kids know ( or precive there is a problem) and are there things like the above that you do to help them face life in this critical world when they precive it as a problem.
Thank you.
Quite good view points that have been posted so far, i would like to know how many parents have AS kids that relisze that they don't quite do the same things as there school freinds?, my boy ( going into high school next yr) has 3 friends that are close to him ( this has been for this yr only and is a great releaf to us for him to have these friends) the others tend to make fun of him because he jsut dosn't "get it" some times ( thats how they talk about or to him).
We have only tried to help him in the areas that he feels he wants it, thats to say things like smelling his food ( less now ) doesn't realy bother him,
yet makeing noises ( up untill last yr ) did, the way we "helped" him over come the noises was to "red flag " them ( my term ) every time he made these noises we would say hum and he would hum a song ( the same one ) until the day came when he just started to hum at times, the inprovement in the way he was treated by others at school was almost striaght away, which made him happy,
he often hums while doing school work or around the home ( we told his teacher that if he does hum in class just let him but if he gets to loaud then just tell him to be alittle quite with out making a big deal out of it & so far it has work well for him)
So back to the question does your kids know ( or precive there is a problem) and are there things like the above that you do to help them face life in this critical world when they precive it as a problem.
Thank you.