Originally posted by hungcuriousnc@Jun 6 2005, 12:02 PM
I clean up prior to sex everytime. Not because I need too but because it gives ne a sense of confidence that I am offering my best.
That is so true! I think you hit it the subject right on it. Like the guysaid above too though, he doesn't have to prepare ever... he just goes with the heat of the moment. I have known others like that and they have no problem either. I just know that to save face and avoid ambarassment, I do go through the trouble of prepping before anal sex.
Some have to, some don't. It's up to you.
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Hungcurious has some excellent points above, as do several of the other posts. When I was younger, I was much more able to bottom without preparation. However, as I've gotten older (now 31) I have to watch my diet the days prior, exercise lots, etc.
Basically, I won't let my partner touch me if I feel like I would have to go to the bathroom anywhere within the next 4 hours. When you're bottoming (especially with a big dick,) your digestive system will relax, and it's more likely that something unpleasant will happen. So, make sure the coast is TOTALLY clear!
And, as someone pointed out, your NOSE is the BEST tool when you are bottoming. The only smells should be sweat and lube. Anything that doesn't smell good is a sign to stop immediately!
Also, once you're bottoming, pay attention to how your body is feeling. I can last maybe 10 minutes with my partner (true 9x7) before my anus starts hurting, or my digestive system starts warning me. With averaged-sized partners, I was able to go much longer...
Another note: When you do bottom, and your partner is pulling out of you, it's going to feel like you're having a bowel movement. Take your time, use more lube than you think you should. Get to know feelings that are OK and those you're not sure about. You can never be too careful!
Finally, I've never used an enema, just paid close attention to my body, and washed well before hand. I topped a guy once who did use an enema and didn't give the recommended hour wait afterwards, and it wasn't pretty. In the end, anal sex is bound to have some negligible uncleanliness, but nothing that will stop the show. On your best days, you'll never have a problem! However, just in case, have lots of hand towels around (to wipe of excess lube, etc) and take it easy!
Good luck!