Just curious if this has happened to you or do you have any friends who think are gay or that you think are gay...Lately for some reason I have had people ask me if I am gay more often...It really doesn't bother me and I never take offense because I know I like women...I live in a really trendy and gay friendly area plus from what I have been told I dress really well and I am a great cook (I worked as a cook when I was 16)...I really don't like the term "metrosexual" but that is what probably all my friends are considered so we all have got that question from time to time...
It was funny because the other night I was kind of drunk and my friend's hot Russian wife seemed like she was flirting w/me...So I started flirting back and she for some reason started talking about gay guys and how she loved their sense of style and how they work out (snickering unlike her husband) and are well groomed...Then within the gay guys talk she slipped you guys...That is when I realize that she thought I was gay...So I laughed and said I am not gay and she had this look on her face of embarrassment...She said you are not and said you dress well and are well groomed but then she said that she was misinformed...That made me think her husband must have told her that...
First of all I thought he was a little curious because he calls me a lot to hang out and he gets a little touchy feely and how he might walk up behind me and say something in my ear...And I swear lately alot of my straight friends get drunk and make overt passes at me...Like one friend one night kept grabbing my ass then when finally turned around he says "Yeah it's me I'm gay - just joking" and started laughing but last night gave me the distant indication that he wanted to go home w/me (using the too drunk to drive excuse) and rubbing his crotch area and looking at me on the cab ride back to my place...Glad I kind of helped him come to his senses about that and he went to this chick he use to hook up w/place that lived a block from me...
Personally I think it is natural for a straight guy to be curious about another guy...I have explored that curiousity myself and kind of beyond that now (and that was over 2yrs ago)...But it is getting kind of weird that lately I am the friend that my straight friends want to explore that curiousity with...Most of these guys I have known for 2 to 5yrs and never had any indications of any attraction on either sides but lately it been happening a lot...So I guess that is why I wondering if my friends think I am gay and some have asked me that...And being gay would not be a problem w/them...All of them have gay friends, siblings or roommates who they hang out w/all the time...And most of my friends are married or have long term girlfriends too...Sorry for the long post...Just something I have been thinking about lately...I hang out w/about 10 core straight guys and at least half have made sexual advances when they are drunk...I usually laugh it off thinking it is just the alcohol...
It was funny because the other night I was kind of drunk and my friend's hot Russian wife seemed like she was flirting w/me...So I started flirting back and she for some reason started talking about gay guys and how she loved their sense of style and how they work out (snickering unlike her husband) and are well groomed...Then within the gay guys talk she slipped you guys...That is when I realize that she thought I was gay...So I laughed and said I am not gay and she had this look on her face of embarrassment...She said you are not and said you dress well and are well groomed but then she said that she was misinformed...That made me think her husband must have told her that...
First of all I thought he was a little curious because he calls me a lot to hang out and he gets a little touchy feely and how he might walk up behind me and say something in my ear...And I swear lately alot of my straight friends get drunk and make overt passes at me...Like one friend one night kept grabbing my ass then when finally turned around he says "Yeah it's me I'm gay - just joking" and started laughing but last night gave me the distant indication that he wanted to go home w/me (using the too drunk to drive excuse) and rubbing his crotch area and looking at me on the cab ride back to my place...Glad I kind of helped him come to his senses about that and he went to this chick he use to hook up w/place that lived a block from me...
Personally I think it is natural for a straight guy to be curious about another guy...I have explored that curiousity myself and kind of beyond that now (and that was over 2yrs ago)...But it is getting kind of weird that lately I am the friend that my straight friends want to explore that curiousity with...Most of these guys I have known for 2 to 5yrs and never had any indications of any attraction on either sides but lately it been happening a lot...So I guess that is why I wondering if my friends think I am gay and some have asked me that...And being gay would not be a problem w/them...All of them have gay friends, siblings or roommates who they hang out w/all the time...And most of my friends are married or have long term girlfriends too...Sorry for the long post...Just something I have been thinking about lately...I hang out w/about 10 core straight guys and at least half have made sexual advances when they are drunk...I usually laugh it off thinking it is just the alcohol...