Who else has had enough of not being loved and can take much more?
there ain't no such animal.
You are loved.... by SOMEONE. Probably by quite a few people. Tho, not in the way you are craving.
What you are griping about is not getting something You Want. You Want someone sexually, romantically- someone to do things with, or do nothing with... and moreover- You want that person to want the same things from you.
That's understandable and fairly normal.
But that is a selfish motivation and the primary obstacle to finding that which you seek, because the love you are talking about is a Giving thing, not an asking thing.
Stop looking at potential mates from the point of view of whether they will give you what you want... and instead from the point of view of someone to whom
You can
give what
They want.
Its a subtle distinction but its the key.
The reason INCELs can't get laid is because they see women as NOT giving
them something - rather than as people they want to give to.
As others have already said- if you don't love yourself , first, you are gonna have a hard time truly loving someone else.
And there is no such thing as unconditional love.
If you want to be loved... you have to
be lovable.
And one of the secrets to being lovable is to stop thinking about yourself so much.
Stop thinking about what you AREN'T getting- and start thinking about just enjoying what you are getting.