At the gym

[madame_zora]

Sweet ass! Kinkguy, you are so lucky to have had an opportunity like that! How many times do we encounter an asshole that we never see again, I'm glad you got to put this one in his place, and you did it with style- my hero! *swoons*

 

[Altairion]

Originally posted by KinkGuy@Apr 20 2005, 02:13 PM
UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE
So I went to the gym last night after work. Walked into the locker room and guess who was just beginning to dress and get ready to leave? Yep. DearOldDad! He was sitting on the bench (no son in sight) right in front of the same row of lockers where we last encountered each other. I was wearing my suit and tie, walked over to the nearest locker, dropped my gym bag right next to him, yanked open a locker and turned to face him. He looked up at the sound of my gym bag thumping onto the bench, with a very startled look on his face. I started unbuttoning my shirt, looked him in the eye and in a very direct, but polite voice said, "the other night you seemed to have a problem with me and I was wondering if you would like to discuss something?" He was only half dressed, but began scrambling around, grabbing his stuff and literally ran to the other side of the locker room behind another row of lockers. I smiled to myself, stripped down in record time and purposely went out of my way to walk past him on the way to the shower (before my workout which I never do B) ) with my head high, shoulders back and a confident swagger with my tackle swinging! I thought he was going to have a stroke. I didn't even look back.

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Haaaaaaa! Nice work buddy

 

[ceg1526]

Kink: You did good, in both encounters.

Take care

Ceg

 

[Papa Kork]

I more or less take a different approach to this incident. First, I would not have a pa in my cock in a locker room. If I wanted to wear one, I would wear it and not let it be seen by anyone especially in a public locker room that has young boys that are not old enough to know what is going on.
Secondly, the little boy should have been in the little boy's dressing room and not in the men's locker room.
If I got upset at the comments that are said to me, I would stay in a constant fight. People say things because they don't understand that you have the right to do as you please as long as it doesn't force them to do something they don't want to do. I really can't remember being in a public locker room without someone either constantly looking at me or saying something about my endowment. I would have just said thank you to the man and not given him the opportunity to control me. He pushed your button and you lost control.
The father should have just told the little boy OK or alright or something that didn't draw attention to his statement.
If you are going to wear cock rings, pa's and other things in a non-homosexual gym, you are going to get some stange looks and comments. If they are thinking it, they are going to say it...
I have a friend that is straight and he has a nipple pierced. He get's some strange looks from guys in the locker room sometimes. He said he was just going to not wear the thing while he was in there because he guessed it did look strange to the other men in the locker room. It doesn't bother me at all. I am used to seeing it when he has his shirt off. However there is a place for everything.
Perhaps the father was jeaslous that he didn't have the equipment to wear a pa in. Don't let people push your button and make you angry over something that unimportant. Perhaps you should have just slapped him up side the head with your cock and he would not have said another word.

 

[Pappy]

Originally posted by Careem@Apr 28 2005, 09:55 AM
I more or less take a different approach to this incident. First, I would not have a pa in my cock in a locker room. If I wanted to wear one, I would wear it and not let it be seen by anyone especially in a public locker room that has young boys that are not old enough to know what is going on.
Secondly, the little boy should have been in the little boy's dressing room and not in the men's locker room.
If I got upset at the comments that are said to me, I would stay in a constant fight. People say things because they don't understand that you have the right to do as you please as long as it doesn't force them to do something they don't want to do. I really can't remember being in a public locker room without someone either constantly looking at me or saying something about my endowment. I would have just said thank you to the man and not given him the opportunity to control me. He pushed your button and you lost control.
The father should have just told the little boy OK or alright or something that didn't draw attention to his statement.
If you are going to wear cock rings, pa's and other things in a non-homosexual gym, you are going to get some stange looks and comments. If they are thinking it, they are going to say it...
I have a friend that is straight and he has a nipple pierced. He get's some strange looks from guys in the locker room sometimes. He said he was just going to not wear the thing while he was in there because he guessed it did look strange to the other men in the locker room. It doesn't bother me at all. I am used to seeing it when he has his shirt off. However there is a place for everything.
Perhaps the father was jeaslous that he didn't have the equipment to wear a pa in. Don't let people push your button and make you angry over something that unimportant. Perhaps you should have just slapped him up side the head with your cock and he would not have said another word.

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What, you think that only gay guys have P.A.'s?? What a pre-historic view that is.

 

[KinkGuy]

Thanks Pappy! And I know Careem is trying to be supportive, but I absolutely refuse to hide what and who I am from assholes like DOD! I wasn't waving my cock like a propeller or fondling myself or jerking off when the situation took place.

It's a men's locker room for fuck sake. Men get naked there. Men of all sizes, shapes, colors and persuasions. What is DOD going to do and tell the kid when he sees the war vet. come in and remove his artificial leg so he can go swimming? That's a troubling sight and will cause curiosity in a young child as well. Should he hide his differences or body?

Believe me, I'm not the only guy (or gal for that matter) at the gym with a hole or two in their body. And I am going to enjoy bugging the fuck out of him any time I run into him at the gym, as long as his son isn't with him. Shallow, aren't I?

 

[blackwood]

Originally posted by KinkGuy@Apr 29 2005, 06:05 AM
Thanks Pappy! And I know Careem is trying to be supportive, but I absolutely refuse to hide what and who I am from assholes like DOD! I wasn't waving my cock like a propeller or fondling myself or jerking off when the situation took place.

It's a men's locker room for fuck sake. Men get naked there. Men of all sizes, shapes, colors and persuasions. What is DOD going to do and tell the kid when he sees the war vet. come in and remove his artificial leg so he can go swimming? That's a troubling sight and will cause curiosity in a young child as well. Should he hide his differences or body?

Believe me, I'm not the only guy (or gal for that matter) at the gym with a hole or two in their body. And I am going to enjoy bugging the fuck out of him any time I run into him at the gym, as long as his son isn't with him. Shallow, aren't I?

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KinkGuy,

You really need to set the incident asside(? sp). You were right, he was wrong, very wrong, but.......

Not "expose" them to abuse, My two sons accompanied me when and where appropriate.

We we camping on the extreme South end of Padre Island Nat'l Seashore. The only people we saw during the 2 weeks, were the Park Rangers.

I opted to play in the surf naked. My sons seeing this did the same. My wife: "AIN'T, AIN'T NO WAY" was her response to my suggestion/invitation. Though we did have a good time in the waist deep surf.

I took the boys to the Park Ranger Station daily to get a fresh water shower and to take a bunch of fresh water back to the campsite. At times we were in the bath house any number of fat, skinny, short, tall, young, old and all races of males were represented.

There was no ignorance or shocking surprise on the part of my kids because they were primed for life. They did not point, giggle or what ever, even though there may have been good reason. Hehe and.......I guess I was "A" reason, since kids giggled, men stared, and men indicated disapproval of my nudity and presence of MY kids. Some were talking to themselves on the way out. I ain't gonna shower in a swim suit to spare some "little guy" from exposure to my buddy. My oldest son said "Dad you really showed them" I responded with a no WE showed them. hehe

Trying to say little people will be little, us biguns need to be "big".

You did good, you did right, and you were very correct in NOT cold cocking the SOB.

blackwood

 

[DadsAreUs]

Bravo, KinkGuy. To me it seems you handled both encounters beautifully.

Careem, I disagree with a lot of things you said but I respect that you phrased it "if it were me" as opposed to "if I were you" or "what you should have done is ..." Although I don't agree with certain presumptions you make, like only gay guys have PAs or that certain dress should only occurr in "gay gyms" (most gyms I have been to, even the ones thought of as cruising gyms, have a healthy mix of gay and straight clientele) I think we should try to refrain from hurling insults your way. Or, to follow my own advice, I should restrain from hurling them.

 

[MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK]

I'm going to have to go along with the consensus of the posters here whne they say that tho you might've intended to have been supportive, I can't help but feel that part of your post falls upon the "you should do that someplace else bit."

The idea that just because someone has piercings someplace not so incognito does not determine sexual preference there careem, and I think you need to retract your statement in your post.

 

[Alley Blue]

I have to admit, If I was "dear old dad" and wanted to shelter my kid from seeing odd things like cock piercings or nipple piercings, I sure would'nt bring him to a PUBLIC locker room which is full of nude guys with all sorts of piercing and tatoos.

Piercings are all to common in this day and age, If I bring my kid to a public gym I should know that someone there is bound to have one and my kid will probably see it. I would prepare my child for this or don't bother bringing him......have him change/shower at home.

 

[jonb]

Yeah, you're bound to find guys with piercings, shaved pubes, etc. I once took my little brother to a gym and he was surprised because this guy there was circumcised and I had to say to him "Well, in some religions from the opposite side of the world, people cut the skin off their penis. Don't ask me why they do it."