i can't use the urinals if anyone is in my line anymore. my cock isn't that small flaccid , at least i think so (4.5x4.5), but every encounter i've made with another man at the urinals have put me ashame - they all were just bigger than me. some of them were a bit shorter because after a good piss i grow to almost 6 inches flaccid, but i always remain somewhat on the thin side and therefore my cock looks meaningless in my hand compared to their's. i've had at least ten or so urinal encounters and every time i looked (and i am a curious peeker which belongs to my 1% gayness) it was a penis of a larger scale than mine. it has come so far that it almost disgraced the results of all those anthropological researches and internet surveys, making me believe that i am actually on the small side and shouldn't be using the urinals which are for the "big guys". so, here are my questions: are the urinals really for the big guys, i mean - there are lot of guys going to the cabins for peeing, most probably due to the lack of confidence ergo lack of size? and if so, why are pissoires always so prominently exposed in media and common sense in the way that women and most men, even some of those who don't actually use them, believe we always piss at the urinals? and, the last but most important, why the hell i encountered only guys larger than my 4.5x4.5 (at minimum) flaccid?