At What Size Does Oral Become Difficult?

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  1. Knight

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    Hi. So I've been wondering why I've never had a blowjob. A few people have said it's just because I didn't ask them but I dunno, I thought a blowjob was the standard sexual act...maybe I was wrong.

    Anyway I was wondering at what size oral might become scary or difficult. My penis is 6" around at halfway down but the head is only 4.5-5" girth (depending on whether the foreskin is retracted or not etc) so that shouldn't be hard to 'fellate'.

    I'd also like from other people on what they think is hard to blow and their own experiences. Thanks :)
     
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    Stretched to it's fullest my mouth is about 2.5inches wide and that was quite painful....so if it's more than 2 inches in diameter, it ain't gonna fit...just an insight to your question. Not many people have large mouths...and I can fit a lot in mine. lol. :shrug:
     
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    Knight, I am 12 years older than you and roughly the same size, and have never had a full blow job (including orgasm). There are many guys in the same boat; it's not at all unusual. You are right that girth is a major factor, especially for str8 guys. In my case, a second complicating factor is that I take quite a while to cum, so if you combine that with the fact that most women will need to take a "breather" every 15-30 seconds because of my girth it is not exactly a recipe for easy orgasms.

    The oral difficulties are certainly a major downside to being girthy, although I personally don't worry about it too much because I don't know what I'm missing. I'm also, frankly, glad that I don't cum super-quickly, which might make oral more satisfying for me at the price of making regular penetration much less satisfying for both my wife and I. My feeling is, if my sex life is otherwise strong (and it IS!) then a BJ is certainly something I can live without.

    Steve
     
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    Yeah usually girth is the problem, though personally I'd be able to accomodate a 6" circumference, not all would be, if only you were gay and lived closer by... ;) lengthwise it's much easier for me if it curves down/out than up/in as this will allow it to fit better in the throat.
     
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    Knight,

    I'm sure that I'm not the only one who is going to feel bad reading your post. I'm also thinking what is wrong with this world if a guy like you can't get head.

    The answers will come, (and so will the offers).
     
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    Knight,

    Do you mean that no girl has even 'gone down' on you? Or do you mean to completion?
    Or deep thoat?

    I've never had a woman swallow (yet) and none have been able to deep throat me (yet), but I have had plenty of oral sex! I'm also 6" around, except at the head, and no woman has had any trouble with the first 2-3 inches. It's inches 4-7 that they have difficulty with!
    There are some guys with very large heads, and I would think they may have more trouble than you or I.

    You are young still, so don't worry too much about it!

    LapDog :p
     
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    Yeah that's what I was thinkin, I've seen some guys bigger than me in pornos gettin head, they looked maybe 7" girth in some so I was wonderin why I cant get any lol. And no, no girl has ever even gone down on me :(

    Next time I'll just ask instead of expecting it...
     
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    Knight, my first time she was stroking it (and commenting on my size) and I just asked "Would you go down on me?" She said "Sure". Doesn't hurt to ask!
    It also probably helped that I just spent 20-30 minutes fingering her to an orgasm. ;)

    LapDog :p
     
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    I haven't had a proper blowjob (e.g. the head of my dick fully inside anyone's mouth with their lips forming a "seal") since I was about 13 :(
     
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    I would certainly think that the diameter of the penis would be the reason perhaps you haven&#39;t had head. However, I am over 8.4" around when erect and over 12.5" long. I have had only a couple of women give me head and that was when I was totally soft. As the diameter of my penis enlarged, they could not get it into their mouth. The first time was when a woman (older than me) was giving me a massage and pulled down my shorts. She immediately started to feel of my penis and took the head into her mouth. I am a little over 6" around when soft and she was able to take the head and maybe a couple inches down the shaft. She sucked pretty hard on it for a minute or so and asked me if it felt good. She then asked me how much bigger it got. I told her that if she continued to do that, she would find out. I started to get an erection and she finally was not able to take the head into her mouth. My head becomes slightly larger than my shaft and the shaft is over 8.5" in diameter. She made the comment that I was just to large for her to take. She was able to massage me to orgasm however. So, I don&#39;t know if 6.5" or larger around is more or less the cutting off point for head or not. Those of you with more experience would have to comment on this. The second time a woman or women attempted to take me was at a friends house when I was about 17. The women were having a party and had been drinking for a while. I came into the room to get some water for my friend and I and they more or less made me their snack. They pulled down my shorts after feeling of me and quickly got me erect. None of them could take me into their mouth when I was erect. However, one of them who was married to what she called a hung guy tried to suck me but she could not either.
    So, having a larger than 6or 6.5" penis probably has it&#39;s drawbacks when it comes to getting head. I was reminded by a fellow member that my dick is larger than a 12 oz. (355ml.) Dr. Pepper can. And it is 2 7/8" wide. Not sure about your size or girth but certainly it must be one of the reasons you have not been offered head. You might get them to do it to you while you are still soft. I know it felt good to me.
     
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    Yeah, that sounds like my experience as well. I&#39;d certainly say that those of us in that range for girth will always have a much tougher time finding a partner who can comfortably accommodate things. Girth has been a blessing/curse for me throughout my sexual life, but my thickest part is about two-thirds up the shaft--my head is smaller--so that makes it easier to at least have a great oral experience.

    I have to admit that I&#39;ve only ever encountered one woman who was unable (unwilling?) to at least suck the head (and often a bit more), and thankfully, after awhile, that&#39;s often been enough for me to orgasm.
     
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    I&#39;ll outright admit I&#39;ve never had one or tried to have one, but from randomly playing around and figuring out a long time back that I didn&#39;t fit in a toilet paper roll; I also found out that the toilet paper roll didn&#39;t fit in my mount and I was just like...."damn" Of course I&#39;ve got a small mouth, so I&#39;ve got some hope stilll :happy:
     
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    Oh, there&#39;s more than hope, B. ;) Partners come in all shapes and sizes. Maybe it&#39;s because I&#39;m a big guy myself, but I have always been more attracted to women of favorably comparable stature (always felt that petite women seem like chidren in comparison--no offense). Plus, there&#39;s just more physical compatibility that way.

    I&#39;ve resigned myself to the fact that deep throat is probably not going to happen (but I can still dream&#33;); however, there are whole worlds of untapped possibilities with the right partner.

    Hang in there, man. :pals:
     
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    I&#39;ve been deep throated by one partner who said she had no gag reflex and was pretty proud of herself.

    At what size does oral become difficult? Why, it&#39;s when I feel teeth raking my cock&#33;
     
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    *edit......thanks to steve :patriot: my complete idiocy and incapability of typing before class in the morning was brought to my attention.

    For those of you who noticed my error which can&#39;t be edited, I&#39;m sure you know what my intended word choice was. :icon_redface:
     
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    I think that anyone over 7 can be a challenge as far as oral is concerned.
    I also realize, having been with women and men,
    that oral has rarely...rarely been a challenge for any of the men i&#39;ve known.
    Makes me sad for my straight pals, but you all seem to be taking it well.
     
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    If someone is in to you, they&#39;ll eventually try and do their best. it&#39;s understandable that folks might not do it at first--it is afterall a rather personal deed&#33;

    i have had it done to me by girls and guys who used their teeth (ouch) and by some who were really good at it, usually guys. i&#39;ve had more than a few choke while doing it, and i am by no means large.

    i&#39;ve done it to dudes and have not choked even though they were kinda monstrous. there was this brazillian photographer in toronto one time..... :wow:
     
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    Hmm yeah I spose. I mean I thought the ex was into me but I really think all she was into was getting as many orgasms as she could. Her latest &#39;story&#39; is that I made her into a slut because she enjoyed the sex so much. However, although I did enjoy it I don&#39;t think it was the best ever or anything special. I mean all it was was me on top all the time, for hours at a time...and I had my knees rubbed red raw etc.

    Anyway, I spose I&#39;ll just ask for a bj when I get &#39;jiggy&#39; with a belle fille.
     
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    Anyway, I spose I&#39;ll just ask for a bj when I get &#39;jiggy&#39; with a belle fille.
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    mixing your street cred with your french, eh? vive les hommies&#33;

    that is kinda sad about your ex, and i by no means aimed to imply that this chiquita of yours wasn&#39;t in to you. perhaps she had a phobia about germs or some kind of a "block" about penis-to-mouth sex? it does sound like she enjoyed sex with you, even if you had to do all the work all the time.

    that&#39;s lame, however, that she blames you for turning her into a "slut." it is HER choice to sleep around with a bunch of dudes--not your influence. she&#39;s probably trying to find some other dude who makes her feel as "fulfilled" as you did, with your larger than average unit, ya know?
     
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    Well, there are worse things to be blamed for.
     
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