At What Size Would You Refuse Sex?

[Closet Donkey]

[/indent][/indent][/indent][/indent]Let me just throw this in; I'm a midwife and I've delivered maybe 100 babies in the last 13 years. In each case I have to examine the mom to check the cervix.
I'm about 5'2" and my hands are not that big, but there has never been a woman that I've not been able to feel the cervix.
I might have to push, use some pressure, but I can't say that I've noticed much difference in a woman 5' and 100lbs to 6' 200lbs and those in-between.

Personally, my husband is about 8" in length and there is no way he has ever gotten more than 'maybe' 5 inches in me. Some positions are just not comfortable. Girth- last time we actually measured was 16 years ago, then it was close to 6". He would have been 33 at that time. His erections are not as hard as they were then, so girth may be less now.
We could not have intercourse the first time we tried. It might have been the 5th or 6th time he was able to get in somewhat, but he had to just stop there because it felt as though my urethra was being painfully pulled apart.

We were engaged by the time we first had sex and I was living in his apt., so I was not like we were kids in the back seat trying to have sex. Overall I was comfortable (emotionally and physically) and lubricated, but size was the problem.
It took a few weeks to be able to have intercourse and my vaginal tissue relaxed. If we go a few weeks without having sex, I am snug again.
But even if a women was a virgin, then becomes sexually active for 5 years and then for some reason does not have vaginal sex for a year or two, the vaginal tissue will shrink somewhat.

I suppose the bottom line is: how much is too much? There are men on this board who are not having sex (or less sex) because their wife finds intercourse painful do to hubby's girth.
I'm not sure that a larger woman is going to have a larger vagina. The average vagina is between 3-6 inches and I'd think most are 4& 1/2.
Genetics might affect size, height might, but weight is not going to affect the size of the vagina.
Give this a lot of thought, I don't think you can size down if you change you mind!

In my original post I made mention of sexual positions with larger women and how some positions simply wouldn't work on less the man was very well endowed, and this is where I believe that size is of advantage and not because LARGE WOMAN=LARGE VAGINA. From profiles I see online many larger women state that they love huge cocks. But there must surely be a limit?

 

[Mumzi]

This whole post is very enlightening, I won't go into specifics, but the numbers here don't lie, there's only so much you need and can even use, the rest of it is excess. There are also a lot of other posts that shed light into personality and everything else that comes with being the total package of whatever gender you are.

This is true. Length is not the biggest problem, it can be controlled.
But really, there is no need for more length.

Girth is more of a problem. I don't think it would be a good idea to go overboard if someone is trying to increase girth.
There's something I've thought about lately; what happens when we get in our 70's - 80's . Maybe by then we might be interested only once or twice a month.

But how difficult will that be; if we are going 2- 3 or more weeks, intercourse may be difficult. Vaginal tissue will be thinner, and erections softer. Will we feel pressured to have sex so that it won't be uncomfortable when we do?

I did ask my GYN about that and he feels I might be worrying too much and it's probable that I won't be any snugger than I am now if we go a few weeks without intercourse. Life happens, flu, menstrual periods, both ........

I understand the psychological aspect of 'being hung'. I'm sure it's fed my husbands ego over the years and surely when he was single.
Maybe I'm seeing this more from a female/married 20 years/mom perspective, but our life would have been much the same if he were average.
He doesn't make love with just his penis, it is the whole person.

For sure, a woman can pass a baby,so vaginal tissue does stretch, but at the time there are hormones that assist the process.

There's nothing sexy about pain.

 

[Mumzi]

In my original post I made mention of sexual positions with larger women and how some positions simply wouldn't work on less the man was very well endowed, and this is where I believe that size is of advantage and not because LARGE WOMAN=LARGE VAGINA. From profiles I see online many larger women state that they love huge cocks. But there must surely be a limit?

Sure there is a limit. Here's the thing tho; when these woman state they are looking for a well endowed man, have they been with someone large? Would they know if a guy with 6" -7" girth be too much? One can control a dildo, it's not quite the same as another person.

As far as sexual desire & fantasies go, I don't think a woman's size has anything to do with her choices. Some women are turned on by tall men. Some by muscular men. My husband has a very deep voice and when we are in bed and he whispers, it is very sexy.
I find that sexy in any man.

I like idea of having sex outdoors. Not that I want anyone looking, but the feel of the wind and the sun is a turn on.
My sister is close to a bigger woman, she is carrying about 40-50 extra pounds. She is very shy and won't have sex anywhere but their bed or a hotel room.
Ya just never know......

 

[Nala]

This question is strictly for the ladies. Irrespective of the length that you can accommodate in your vagina, at what size: Length ( and girth if you wish to state) would you refuse to have sex with a man.

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Just my 2 cents: all under 5" length or girth gives me a touch of 'missing something'.

Maybe 'refuse' is too strong, it just won't really turn me on or give me as much pleasure.​

 

[Mr. Snakey]

Allways remember There is no law that says it all has to go in So go ahead now and refuse me!!:wink:

 

[jeff black]

Allways remember There is no law that says it all has to go in So go ahead now and refuse me!!:wink:

Who would dare to refuse you??

 

[novice_btm]

Who would dare to refuse you??

Yeah. I was actually looking for the signup sheet. :tongue:

 

[Mr. Snakey]

Who would dare to refuse you??

Not you or anyone else:wink:

 

[Mr. Snakey]

Yeah. I was actually looking for the signup sheet. :tongue:

You wouldnt have to sign up we could over look that:wink:

 

[novice_btm]

You wouldnt have to sign up we could over look that:wink:

SEE Jeffy! And you said it didn't pay to be a whore! :biggrin1:

 

[Mr. Snakey]

First i have to ask Alex8 if its ok He gets mad when i dont tell him about things:biggrin1:

 

[novice_btm]

First i have to ask Alex8 if its ok He gets mad when i dont tell him about things:biggrin1:

Yeah, and I did promise that he could have the first shot at me. :tongue: Maybe I should talk to him about an "exception" list. Like, if one of these 5 people offer, I can just go ahead and do it. :tongue: :tongue: :tongue:

 

[jeff black]

SEE Jeffy! And you said it didn't pay to be a whore! :biggrin1:

Well, it is good to know I have a free pass, if I decide to ride a horse.

Novice, I am sure he would be fine with you getting it on, with uncut.

 

[novice_btm]

Novice, I am sure he would be fine with you getting it on, with uncut.

I dunno. He was pretty pissed when Zora nailed me.

 

[jeff black]

I dunno. He was pretty pissed when Zora nailed me.

He was just happy you got a chance to experience a REAL ten inch cock.

 

[Love-it]

There's nothing sexy about pain.

Mumzi has once again hit the nail on the head.

 

[LookinginLV]

OK, OK, so maybe 5" was a little harsh, but honestly the smallest erect one I've seen, in person, was 5.5" anyway. Knowing that I was purposely going in the wrong direction, I thought I was being funny. I don't know, maybe I'd reconsider. How cute is the person in question? :wink:

Tom Cruise.... Brad Pitt... that's for starters.

 

[Mr. Snakey]

Mumzi has once again hit the nail on the head.

Who says taking a huge cock has to be painfull?

 

[Principessa]

To answer your question I have no idea. Biggest I have had thus far was 8x6 and they didn't bottom out. :redface:

If 9.2 inches isn't big enough for you and assuming your girth is proportionate. I think you need to stop watching porn and listening to some of the drivel that size queens spew here and on other sites.

Seriously dude, you sound just fine and dandy to me. :smile: If you do something to become larger there is a very good chance you will risk becoming so big no woman can handle you. :frown1:

This question is strictly for the ladies. Irrespective of the length that you can accommodate in your vagina, at what size: Length ( and girth if you wish to state) would you refuse to have sex with a man.​

My penis measures approximately 9.2 inches in length, and I know that for some this may already be too much too accommodate, but I have a preference for much larger women and believe that with larger women the extra length can be very beneficial in certain sexual position that would otherwise be impossible or ineffective for an average sized penis.​

I'm considering methods to enlarge my penis, but don't want to over do things to the point where even large women will refuse sex with me.​

Your thoughts please, AND NO DEROGATORY COMMENTS REGARDING LARGE WOMEN.​

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[B_Veronica_Divine]

In all honesty, I'd probably try to sleep with the one that killed me before I refused it.

But then, I'm not saying I'm sane.