The guy is a douchebag, probably one of the biggest, but a media outlet or website has WAY too much power to fuck someone's life. He insulted the woman, brutally, but did not deserve to be outed like that. Jeez, I have used those singles sites before and you expect a certain level of rage or ignorance from douchebags (male and female), but you shouldn't out someone like that.
I mean, think about it, the guy claims to be such a huge success, yet he is balding and using Match.com to find a woman. Someone with all those qualities should be swimming in "low self-esteem" whores, unless he is the biggest loser on the planet, which he appears to be.
Karma was already starting to kick his ass, let it take its course.