I just got finished watching a porno of a guy that's 11.5" toping a guy that had a regular sized cock. I've been with a guy that's that big and I had no real issue with it. Though I wasn't about to get fucked with that. Have other gay guys that are big hung (9"+) had trouble with a guy after they found out how big you are? Did the whole tone change because of it? I know a lot of guys are insecure about the size of thier cocks and to hook up with a guy that makes yours look like a kids is kinda painful.